Do you think a relationship can be healthy with porn use being present?

Im generally curious. Right now none of us use porn, because we manage to have sex a lot. However, there might be times in the future when one of us would have more work, or any other reason, and Im not sure my partner would skip porn in those cases.

Do you think two people can truly desire each other's bodies, respect each other, cherish each other and not have disrespectful wondering eye if any of them uses any kind of "nude" content? Can a relationship stay healthy if they use it 2-4 times a month?

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  • Its healthy if both partners are open to it and partake but still put each other before it. Like perhaps they watch porn together and then fuck each other.
    If one of the two dislikes porn its better if porn isn't present at all.

    • I meant the cases when sex is not available. If it is, then there is no need for porn. For example, if wr worked different shifts, we would only meet on the weekends, so sex for 5 days is not possible

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  • A lot of people are going to tell you it's healthy and fine but it's really not. Porn does a lot more damage to you than people think. Especially when you watch too much.

    • Thats why I said about 4 times a month, so for example, if we worked in a way that every 2nd week we couldnt meet, which is 2 weeks of a month

    • Well think you can easily still be attracted to each other without porn at all and just waiting for the other. I truly believe is horrible even in small doses. You would have less risk with only 2 a month but It still effects you

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  • Porn is ultimately intended as art so it is possible. But most people don't see it that way so who knows..

    • Well yeah, but you dont orgasm from the painting of Van Gogh

    • True. Michelangelo, however...

    • Im more a Picasso kind of girl, but he fine too

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  • Of course. People in has relationships look for external causes but it's always within the couple.

  • That depends on each couple and their dynamics. I watch porn regularly and it doesn’t affect my marriage

    • Dont take it in a rude way , but how is your marriage? Do you find her sexy, do you respect her?

    • Yes. I desire her every day. Watching porn doesn’t affect my ability to love her and have sex with her. But I guess it has a different effect on some people

    • Thats nice to hear!

  • It's not a big deal watching porn.. in fact watching it together can be fun

  • I don't see it being a problem.

  • Ofc you can have a healthy relationship with porn. It's an aide - not a competition! I'm presuming masturbating comes with this and it's fun, healthy and normal. Don't give it a second thought and TALK about it.

  • Most things are healthy in moderation. If you use porn when the partner isn’t available and it’s not abused (like don’t use it everyday), seems like a tool. You can also share porn with them and create fantasies.


    are you asking if it’s acceptable or dangerous?

    • Acceptable

    • Yes if you and your partner agree, then it’s acceptable. Just be sure to keep communication and remind them how important they are

    • Have you ever found someone else to be attractive other than your partner?

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  • Yeah. I’ve always had higher sex drives than my long term girlfriends. They wanted me to watch porn and take care of myself so they didn’t have to deal with me sometimes. They never didn’t get as much sex as they wanted.

  • Yeah

  • Absolutely

    • Did you have experience with this topic?

    • Of course I do