Do you think about your partner when you masturbate?

Question

People in relationships, do you think about your boyfriend/girlfriend when you masturbate or something else? If so, what?

Andres77 · Accepted Answer

Wife and I have a pretty good sex life. She's a nurse and sometimes our schedules don't support fun time so... sometimes she'll call me from the hospital when things are slow and she'll make up some wild stories for me or she'll tell me about her wild past.

If we can't talk I'll pick a story from her past or sometimes I'll think about other exgf's and review the memory or make up something new.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I always think about my wife and some of our really hot experiences, both with sex and oral sex. I think about the way she looks in certain positions, how she feels, and how she sounds when she orgasms, etc. She sometimes lets me cum on her face, so when I am about to finish when I am masturbating, I picture her on her knees and how hot she looks with my cum on her face.

Angela_S · Answer

My partner has a way higher sex drive than me so it's pretty much him who needs to masturbate out of the both of us. But I KNOW he thinks about other women sometimes because it's a kind of a running joke we have. There are certain women on TV he goes nuts for and if one of them appears on the screen I sometimes tease him that I bet he's getting turned on, and it's a shame he's not getting any sex tonight. He then basically pulls his trousers and boxers down and gets busy right in front of me, while watching her, as if to tell me he's not going to let my "sex schedule" stop his fun whenever he wants it. I would never stop him doing this, as it's win-win for me. He gets off when he wants, and then when we do have sex it's really good between us because we both want it.

God_of_Thunder · Answer

I absolutely think of her, yes. I even have a collection of videos & pics she's given me, so I don't have to use my imagination. 😊

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

12 months of lockdown, I think of literally anything. you name it it’s been wanked about. The noise a news paper makes when you scrunch it, yep that as well

JPrez · Answer

Where are all the female comments... lol?

Finchie40 · Answer

If I am in a relationship , i barely masturbate but if I do i think about her and things I want her to do to me in bed , but being single I masturbate to a girl that I wish I was fucking lol

WhyAmIEvenHereAgain · Answer

Yeah, mostly it's while watching other kinds of entertainment. But sometimes it's while I think about my SO. But when we're both home I don't have to masturbate.