Do you think all girl are bi? im fantasizing more and more about my bff but I love guys ?

[jenny_demarkis]

[ludorock]

No, not all women like other women or think about them or fantasize about them. Some people never explore their sexuality, some do and realize they're just not attracted to other women. I think it's more normalized for women to own up to their feelings than men, since women are seen as more compassionate, our idea of love and relationship is more blurred than men's.

I'm bi, and it took me a long time to realize that no all other girls don't just fantasize about women and all the things that come along with being with other women. Not that either way is right or wrong, it's just how it is. Questioning and exploring your sexuality is an amazing thing and it's wonderful that you're comfortable posting here, asking us about this journey.

Point being you are on a journey, and no matter how you feel at the end of it, it's perfectly normal and, even if other people don't have that experience, you're valid. But if you're trying to get clarity on whether or not this is 'normal straight people behavior' the answer is yes and no. Depends on who the person is. Some people explore and realize they're straight, others explore and realize they're not. And our identities and attractions change over time. It's okay to feel one way now and a different way later and a different way after that.

[PolkaDotShorties]

I am experiencing the same thing! I have never considered myself bi or bi-curious but lately I have been fantasizing about two of my best friends, both of which are bi-curious. I haven’t made any physical moves, but one of them knows I’ve been really horny lately and she has been saying all kinds of things. I don’t know if I’m ready to experiment though and maybe put a kink in our relationship :/

[jenny_demarkis]

Wow !! This is exactly how i feel right now ! Except that i dont know if she is into girls at all

[jenny_demarkis]

Its crazy , everything you said is how i feel ! And I've never really fantasize about girls before , watching porn or so..

[PolkaDotShorties]

Does she ever do anything that makes you question how she feels? For example, my best friend has said that she doesn’t want to cross the friend boundary with me, but just today talked about me straddling her. I’m pretty sure if I actually make a move that she’s not going to stop me. I’ve watched lesbian porn, but have never fantasized about women ever.

[jenny_demarkis]

Add me , i’ll tell you what she keeps saying to me ! But inthink she is just jokin around

[PolkaDotShorties]

Okay, I’m following you! My friend seems to be “joking” but since she knows I’m horny, she keeps setting me up to take action or suggesting I do. It’s confusing, lol. I’ll try to help translate your friend!

[jenny_demarkis]

I tries to message you but doesn’t work ! You can just send me a message ;) any dev today?

[PolkaDotShorties]

I just tried to send a message and it seemed to go through? There wasn’t any verbal developments but she does look at me with flirtatious eyes. You know what I mean?

[SecretsofKB]

No... not all women like other women.

[jenny_demarkis]

Ok thank you

[ushagomez]

We are just relaxed and flexible and have no need for a label.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not all girls are but you might be

[Merlo321]

Yes I do

[ShedZC01]

Maybe bicurious

[jenny_demarkis]

Are you?

[ShedZC01]

I was

[jenny_demarkis]

But you found THE man? ;)

[ShedZC01]

Being with a lesbian was also great Fun. Ohh yes I had a "MAN" who F'd me to tapout

[Dorothy83]

Not all I am. But their are also pansexual where your not attracted to the gender but the person.