Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Do you think BDSM or even rough sex, is only for emotionally damaged people?
SovereignessofVamps Influencer
What do you think? Is it sex, or are people expressing like deep needs and all that? I would vote a little. I know rough sex isn't on the same planet as BDSM, but... how do you think they're different or similar?
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I have fantasies about BDSM and rough sex and have done things... I honestly would say I did feel emotionally better or worked through things with them sometimes. So... is that bad?
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16 25Heck No
What? Heck No
Nope
No. I think its about acting out in the bedroom what is not socially acceptable in society. Some women like impact play like face slapping or the punching and slapping of other body parts. If you do that, even 100%. Consensually outside of the bedroom people will crucify the man who does that to a woman.
Society requires us to restrict our behavior so a human needs an outlet, an animalistic outlet of primal aggression. We are still animals and within the privacy of the bedroom there are no social norms, there is no restriction. Everything depends on the dynamic of the couple.
Hahaha hell no! Its just turns me on baby!
I know it is.
Bunch of BS, BDSM is awesome!!
No it is not like that it s only our choice
Love BDSM. I did it last night with my girlfriend
What fetish?
@GraveTruth We both were wearing all leather
@GraveTruth Last night, it was her turn to be the dorm
Well I was already into it before I was raped, and is essentially how/why I was raped.
I truly believe it is the result of some kind of trauma or emotional damage. I'm not being judgmental, I just really believe that.
I'm into it and I don't consider myself damaged
A little
I don't think so during sex I like rape roleplay and humiliation but I have never been sexualy abused or anything
All I know is that I think femdom is so appealing to me for a long term relationship. Being submissive for many years to come, mostly in bed, but also some outside of the bedroom would be great. Even cuckolding would be pretty appealing too. Don't you agree asker?
Go for it dude.
Would you actually like that yourself?
See, this guy is into cuckolding and now he's hunting for you. haha
Yeah... the hunter! So are you dom or sub dude, since you sound sub but hunting is dom.
AT Sovereigness: Normally in life I am dominant, but in a relationship, I mostly like to be submissive. The more emotionally attached I get and the more I can trust her, the more submissive I like to be, and more often until it would be like almost every day eventually. There are a few important decisions I would need to make, but other than that, like for many daily things, I would like the girl to be more dominant, take control, and in charge.
I would like to dress all soft and silky most of the time at home and let you smack me around like every day. I would totally kiss your butt and your feet too and give you a massage every day after you get off work. I would like to kiss your feet in the morning too and get to put your shoes on for you and tie them. I would fix your hair too if you taught me how to do that the way you like.