Do you think cumming on a girl's face is DEGRADING or just another turn on?

So, hot bartender. Been going there for years... I got bad vibes and decided I didn't want to to have sex, so I gave him head instead... At which point he flips me over, on my back. And decides to finish on my face. I'm torn between feelings of degradation and apathy. I see that kind of stuff all the time in p*rn, and honestly. The only thing I'm REALLY worried about is him telling other people about it and them seeing me differently because we have a few mutual friends. But I just kind of laughed about it when it happened... Only after I thought about it some more did I consider that it was hugely degrading. What do you guys think?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • he should've asked first. some girls don't like facials or only let a guy do certain things when they are close to them. me personally, don't just let any guy come where he wants to. he gets to come on my boobs but that's it. but if it's serious, then he can come anywhere so long as he asks to first. I don't like being surprised with a mouth-full of come and I see that as degrading because he used my body without permission. I hope this makes sense on how you're feeling.

  • I'd probably feel the same way you do if I were in your situation. I don't think it's degrading at all when my boyfriend does it, but if I was just having some casual encounter with a guy I barely knew and he did it without knowing if I was okay with it or not, I'd probably feel disrespected.

  • I think cumming on a girl's face is degrading.

    In your case it's degrading because he did it without your consent & you felt degraded.

    He will only be telling he's friends about some chick he sprayed so most likely you'll never encounter them.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not the come on the face that's degrading; if that's your thing, then you're entitled to it. The lack of respect, the lack of communication, the disregard for your response--that's the degrading part.

    It's the intent, not the act, that creates an insult. Remember that.

  • its hot if the girls WANTS me to do it.

    its degrading if she LETS me do it.

    its all about attitude.

    • thank you.

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  • I don't find it degrading at all, it's simply another turn on.

  • Well...it can be either, or both. In your case, I'd say it was flat out degrading.

  • Uhh, its come on your face. Yeah, its degrading.

  • i personally don't like that idea and I would never accept that to be done to me.

  • i know I certainly couldn't date a girl that that let a man come on her face cause I do find it to be a little degrading especially if you date her after another man cummed on her face I find it degrading to me to date her

    • Ugh, I know. I feel tainted... :(

    • why did you give him a blow job if you didn't know him well

    • I've known him for years... thought I knew him well ENOUGH lol

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  • I find it really hot. I don't find it degrading. I'd let a girl come on my face lol.

    I'd like to come on a girl's face, if she was okay with it.

  • i don't find it a turn off, I love it

  • Just a turn on. I don't think of it as degrading. If she thinks it is though that's ok.

  • if she loves, finds a turn on, then no it is not degrading

  • L..O..L