Do you think "dirty talks" is mostly man's job while having sex?

And if men wants us to talk dirty then what exactly they are expecting us to say?
My boyfriend always says i need to be more vocal during sex like him. But i am not sure what to say. Worried about what if i say something extreme and it turns him off.
Aren't my reactions or answers to his dirty talks enough?
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  • I love it when my woman is comfortable talking dirty. You don't have to be loud. You can even whisper the stuff between moans and gasps.

    You have to get comfortable using words like cock, balls, pussy, cunt, clit, fuck and cum. Then you can get creative in complimenting him, as well as telling him what you are feeling and what you want.

    You can use variations on things like "I can't wait for you to fuck me", "I want to feel your cock up inside my pussy", "Fill me up", "You're so deep", "I'm so full", "Your cock feels so good", "You make my pussy so wet", "Fuck me harder", "I love squeezing your cock with my little pussy", "Dig inside me", "You're fucking my guts", "I'm cumming all over your big cock", "Faster", "Just like that", "Don't stop", "I'm going to cum",

    Again, he wants to know what you're feeling, how his cock feels inside you, and if he's pleasing you. Feel free to tell him what feels good and what you want. Compliment him.

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    • You're welcome.

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  • Your boyfriend should be telling you exactly what he wants to hear from you during sexy time. Instead of saying you should talk more and leaving you clueless of what he likes to hear. If he doesn't know yet what exactly he likes to hear, then experimenting or asking him lots of questions is what I recommend.

    It's a huge no to your initial question though. I absolutely love hearing the woman say certain things to me during sexy time. Those certain things super turn me on. I wouldn't call it dirty talk, it's more of her saying certain sexy things or comments I truly love to hear. It's both partner's job to reveal/tell each other what they like to hear, or if they like it quiet then tell them that.

    • What are some things you like her to say

    • Sent you a private message since I don't want everyone to see those secret things I love to hear the woman say to me lol.

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  • Guys like to be told how big they are and how deep they are going inside you and that type of thing. "Fuck me Harder!" is another one they like to hear. If you're not into it and he's not insisting on it than all is well.

    It's good to mix it up though and have some variety in your sex life to keep the spark going.

    Do you think "dirty talks" is mostly man's job while having sex?
  • No but dirty talk is a good way to get a man aroused, a good way to keep him aroused and it is a great way to get him to finish really quicker if you want him too. As for what to say, watch z porn movie.

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  • Oh I think that communication in bed is for both men and women. I love coming up with new things to say that makes him go..."damn girl"! lol

  • It’s both and it starts before the actual sex, it’s part of flirting and setting the scene.

    You can start it in the restaurant with gestures, hints, sentences spoken to each other that sound normal but contain private ‘dirty’ elements to them,

    then when home, you can ramp it up more and more, both should be doing this.

    Sex is not just for the bedroom and behind closed doors, it’s to tease and give suggestion and anticipation.

    yes the really hard stuff for while doing foreplay or fucking, however it’s always both.

    telling your partner what you are going to do, how you are going to do it and what will happen etc, add that extra bit to it all.

    communication before, during and after sex is really important.

  • To me, it doesn't have to be actual "dirty" talk. Just talking about how good it feels, or the sensations going on, etc, I find to be hot.

  • No, it's certainly not. Part of the fantasy dirty talk thing is having a give and take with it.

  • Not at all! cock, pussy, titties, clit and cum are almost always in our sexual conversations during sex or lovemaking.

    • Yup. 👍 😃

  • My boyfriend like makes me say things that I wouldn’t dream of saying.

  • Usually me with the dirty talk. Am I doing it wrong? Should I let the man lead?

  • Lol why would it be 1 persons job to make sure the sex is enjoyable

  • "what are they expecting us to say?" - my thoughts exactly lol. It's not a gender's "job". It's about sexual compatibility in my opinion and if this is an issue, you're not a match.

  • That's usually how it happens but I think she should be involved as much as possible, we get turned on by her dirty talk as well

  • It should be both of you. Tell him what he's doing right and how it makes you feel. Be explicit, use all the naughty words. And let him know what you want him to do to you that he's not doing... yet.

  • I prefer it be both so they each can get turned on by knowing the other's thoughts and fantasies. I can't think of anything that would be too extreme or a turn off when it's being said during sex. An exception to this is when one partner is being submissive and the dominate partner is in total control.

  • No it's both

  • No not really

  • Why not try and see. It's not only "men's job". It needs to be a two way road.

  • I do it a lot too

    • Haha... What does a girl generally talk about in that

  • No everyone can do dirty talk my wife loves it!!!

  • Nope.
    It's mutual.
    Wife and I are very cerebral and talking about raunchy impossible nastiness enhances our orgasms immensely.
    Teamwork!
    💦💦💦💦

  • I can't imagine most guys would object to a girl just vocalizing her pleasure in moans and other sounds that cum naturally to her!

  • According to my experience both genders, if you have sex with shy girl then man has to be begun.
    Dirty talk is spiced up in sex and prolonged and enjoyable.

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