Do you think easy access to porn is ruining us? The expectation of women is a lot more?

[Anonymous]

Is the average men doomed?

[Anonymous]

No. My ex was tooooo big. Like the sex was amazing and he was an absolute animal in bed but I could hardly walk after and felt sore sometimes for a week. I remember just cumming while sucking his dick, I was both afraid and in love with him at the same time. My current boyfriend has a cute dick, around average and sex with him is nice, not mind blowing but I keep a dildo moulded from my ex's big thick horse penis whenever I want to remember what it was like to orgasm until I cry multipletimes, to hurt with pleasure, to be filled to bursting, to not be able to sit on church because it hurts down there.

[Asker]

Thank you for your honesty, can I ask one question. If you are in a relationship with a normal average guy let's say for like 3 years.. would you ride your ex at least once without letting your current boyfriend knows?

[Opinion Owner]

My ex always had power over me.

[Asker]

Thank you, that's the problem in today's society with long term relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

Sex isn't everything. If it was there'd be 20 girls married to my ex right now.

[Asker]

This might be a dumb question but, why did you guys broke up if you really enjoyed it?

[Opinion Owner]

For starters he's in jail

[European4Ever]

Maybe it's private and you don't want to mention it, but what's the general reason he's in general? Drugs, violent assault, stealing, rape, murder, drunk driving, or something else?

[Opinion Owner]

@European4Ever violent assault

[Gigi2019]

The porn industry destroys infants and children... We need a moratorium on the porn industry until we can weed out the individuals exploiting minors. Once safeguards are put in place to ensure that this doesn't happen again, we can then investigate who is "zooming" who.

FYI

Men can watch as much "adult", consensual porn all they like. The same goes for women. I don't believe that certain kinds of porn are demoralizing, sinful, or wrong.

[Gigi2019]

*as they like

[EnglishEuropean]

According to the American Bar Association "Exposure to pornography harms children and youth by normalizing sexual violence, creating unrealistic expectations for intimate partners and relationships, and increasing the risk of addiction."

[Phoenix-gb]

No, social media in general and the photoshop'd false perfection that permeates through those posts, media adverts that used to be easily distinguishable from real life is now the same as the 50 influencers you follow so clearly an attainable standard even though it's just as fake.

Porn is just the inevitable by product as those guys who get made to feel worthless try to satisfy their needs without having an actual loving partner that they crave and would care for if they were just seen as human beings and given a chance.

[DonkeyDan]

Porn use in excess is definitely ruining people, with things like intimacy, and sexual function issues. Also psychologically the impression people get is they need to perform like a pornstar and have the same equipment, this affects men more. If the only exposure to sex if from porn, it gives people a very weird expectation of real sex encounters, and also the kind of partners they seek out.

[Asker]

That's exactly my point of view.

[Markm3212]

i would say that its evolving us.

look back over time and some of the things that we do now were considered taboo, like BJ's, when my parents were young, BJ's were what prostitutes' done its just a warm up to sex. a lot of the desire came from watching porn films.

this is how we learn and evolve, by seeing things and replicating them. we just dont know how it will evolve

[Asker]

there are proof that in Egyptian times people did BJ's, I guess it was more a taboo before

[SnakeBoop]

No. Because most who use it recognise its literally all fake and even worse than a TV drama episode.

[maverick2022]

The brain accepts it as real which is why it turns people on. Porn literally changes many peoples perception of sex and rewires peoples brains. Whether or not people realize how cartoonishly stupid it is, is a side point.

[SnakeBoop]

🤣🤣🤣 no it fucking doesn't.

[Lowiu]

Like porn in general can distort peoples expectations not just for women
Some guys also fall for that you always have to keep in mind that its all acted and professionals

[Andreasucks69]

If anything more women should be exposed to porn and that would hopefully make them easier to accept sex from men

[Asker]

Maybe, but do you think only 10% of the men will benefit, maybe 20%. But the rest of the 80-60% will not benefit.

[maverick2022]

I dunno but when I used to watch porn, I didn't want to go near a girl afterwards.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Not at all.
My g/f loves porn as much as me, well OK not QUITE as much. I'm quite the connoisseur. I have half the porn hub server on my hard drives all neatly grouped into preference and style.

[Adam1978]

Not in that way. I think social media is hurting relationship more than porn. In fact any filtering that only allows and reflects positive or bad news are bad for us. So news reports that only report bad news is bad, or social media that only show people good sides, porn without normal interaction etc.

[UniquelyBasic]

It hurts both sides honestly. As long as you go into it knowing its just for entertainment purposes and nothing more then it fine.

[genericname85]

i think people that build their expectations from porn (the most extreme version of sex) are just idiots.

[gabby100]

It can work both ways. Guys expect all women to act like, the girls in porn,..

[maverick2022]

Yes porn is addictive and distorts peoples perceptions of sex. Not to mention the average child is exposed to hardcore pornography by the age of 11. Meanwhile relationships are going down the drain. Porn should be banned.

[Iron_Man]

Well if they don’t look that good then I don’t know what to tell them

[Asker]

I like the way you think, you automatically think about you before thinking about what they want. I need to learn how think that way.

[Iron_Man]

I basically know what I want with pussy and my girlfriend looked real good so why settle for Mixed dark mocha colors and big wrinkled skin that droops

[Curiousmale2020]

Not really. Some people can get more pleasure from masturbating and just watch porn to get off. Porn can be funny too. For example:I guy is peeping at a girl in the shower and she sees him. In reality she calls the police, the guy is arrested. In a porn movie they end up having sex.😄

[IsoUser]

I expect nothing from any girl I have ever been with so I am rarely disappointed. Expectations come in relationships.

[Asker]

Thank you for this knowledge. Unfortunately for us, women have the power to be with a person that they are attracted to. We just get lucky sometimes.

[IsoUser]

You're very lucky you survived given who you were traveling with

[nawtee_me]

I really don't understand why people have expectations of others after watching porn. If I watch the movie Frankenstein I do not expect to hear about grave robbers and body parts in the morning news... If I watch Finding Nemo I do not expect to hear fish talk... So why would I expect every girl to be a porn star after watching some porn?

[EnglishEuropean]

I don't think women's expectations are the problem. Excessive porn use is known to cause erectile dysfunction.

[Asker]

I believe that, I had times that I was hard af and If by mistake enters a "bless male" , my thing will go soft lol its true , i think psychologically speaking, that's the problem with guys nowadays that don't want a long term relationship

[bananathunder]

no... i only use it as a tool to bust nuts. I don't take any of it seriously or use it for educational purposes lol

[Endlesslove7]

I love watching porn movies. My favorite categories are domination, bukkake and blacked.

[Brigantexx]

Umm nope

[Anonymous]

Maybe... maybe not.

[Anonymous]

Women always have high expectations but I won't get together with a girl that I'm not attracted to either. Social media is making it easier for women to hook up with tons of men for sex, that is ruining long term relationships.

[Asker]

You hit the target. That is so true. TInder is a very depressing app for me. From that app I learned that there's a Fuckboy Nation thing? (I guess is legal?). In another words, women can live a happy live alone. :(

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I totally agree with you. I'ts hard to find a woman that just wants love more than sex.

[Anonymous]

Nah its saving us. In my parents day all you had was regular missionary sex for the most part. Blowjobs were rare, hell even doggystyle was rare, you couldn't cum on her face, do anal or anything cool, etc.

Nowadays you can fuck her from behind on the first date, facefuck her, paint her face with cum, stick your dick up her ass, put her in bondage and then piss in her mouth, and its not even that far out the box anymore lol. Life is great, thanks for becoming empowered women 😂

[Asker]

This world was made for the women. That's why we die first lol