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  • I and my husband – both are proud of our first time sex. We were knowing each other from very childhood; we were attending same school and going to school in one vehicle for many years of schooling. We were neighbor of same street, and we had some family relations too. Before anything was decided about our formal engagement and marriage, most people were assuming us as “made for each other”. Following our cultural and family traditions we had not enjoyed any serious sexual activities. (After engagement we were meeting behind closed doors for few minutes and touching and kissing each other – that is all.) Our first time sex was after marriage only, and we considered it as gifting our virginity to each other – the best gift we can offer to each other. It was most pleasant moment of our life and we are proud of it.

    Apparently, most people in India, particularly Hindu culture, strongly feel that sex and love should be intimately connected; it is a part of faithfulness and commitment for life partner and at least when it comes to losing our virginity and enjoying sex – monogamous is one of the most desired character / thing still today. For men and women particularly on both continents – Europe and America, a lack of true love for their partner is the leading reason they regretted their first time. They enjoy sex first time in most cases just to satisfy their curiosity or to try something new as maturing persons or just to show their manhood – female power to somebody. They do it for pleasure – new form of pleasure, without understanding nature’s design in making sex most pleasant and enjoyable activity. Nature has designed it pleasant to encourage men and women to produce babies to keep life everlasting on earth. Ultimately, women are far more likely than men to say that they regret their first sexual experience. There are many myths about sex people believed in and which misconceptions they held on to for too long.

    The most common reasons for regret were that they were not in love with the partner and that the partner pressured them into it, with an outlier that many people (Yes I mean GIRLS too) are drunk when they lost their virginity. In addition to that, pressure from a partner to enjoy sex contributed to regret in many cases, more traditional top-reported cause. Regrets about intoxicated first sex experiences also have some myths and believes associated with actual sexual activity. While college campuses across the globe discuss the intersection of alcohol and consent, most male are actually more likely to voice regret about being drunk during their first time. Most people believe that condoms always reduced sensations during sex, and therefore girls too believe that their first time should be without condoms and that is amazing. They also believe that having larger hands or feet corresponded to having a larger penis – and eating pineapple (or some special food) just before sex would improve the pleasure and taste of their vagina or semen.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Not everyone. I know some girls that reached the heaven their first time.

    This was not the case for me. However aroused and looking forward to do it I was too anxious and too nervous for enjoying and reaching a climax. I was very disappointed and sad.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, I guess for girls things may be a bit different as for guys, but as a man, concerning my first time real sex, no, no regrets at all. Sure I wasn't good, but my wife, who had the experience a previous marriage, was comprehensive, and helped. Afterwards our intimate moments become far more satisfying for both of us. As with everything in life, we have to learn from practice.

  • I think that's more of a girl's thing. A girl has more vulnerability both biological and sociological. I don't regret mine but I'm a guy. What kind of guy and experience regrets his?

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  • No I don’t. I certainly didn’t regret mine at all. Maybe I was lucky to have a wonderful time.

  • Nah I have no regrets about my first time. It was probably the most romantic sex I've ever had tbh

    • Well okay c:

    • You need your own TV show on Netflix girl.

    • @Cuminginside for sure but nobody would watch it

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  • Nope cuz i believe there a lesson to learn.

    • What lesson? cx

    • Depends on which thing they did

  • As always there will be those who do and those who don't... Personally I have no regrets whatsoever.

  • Probably. Because it’s immoral and sinful so people feel guilty. If someone feels guilty or dirty for something. Maybe they should stop.

    Unless married

    • I dig it but a bit Bible-Thumping there.

    • @ZXCwWRQWz well. That’s my answer and I’m sticking to it and I ain’t gonna argue. I already blocked one person tonight

    • I'm not sure if I even have an argument. I liked my youth having sex with questionable women but I like my marriage way better. Sometimes I wish I could erase and meet my now-wife way earlier. I wish we could meet in high school, for example, and not a picnic in my late-20s.

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  • I don’t think everyone regrets their first time but some people do especially if they do it too soon or with the wrong person

  • Many do, yes. I do.

  • Only one regret and that's because it was so pleasurable I got her pregnant on the first time. We kept going all night. Some people you don't want to say no to, some people you can't stop what's coming literally.

  • I have no regrets.

  • You don't regret it but its not the best

  • Eh... I'm sure there are people who don't, but most do. That's why I tell people that there is no rush in losing your v card.

  • Hell no. Me and my girl were very happy to lose it together was a great experience

  • Not me. I love every second of it.

    • Yay c:

  • Haven't had mine yet

    I'd hope not

  • Not everyone.

  • No. I dont. But its rarely the best time

    • Oh oki :/

    • Its awkward and you don't know what you're doing

  • No, I don’t regret mine at all.

    • That's good c:

  • I don't, other than I wish I knew my girlfriend sooner because then we would have started dating sooner and we'd have had sex sooner.

  • No way

  • I regret

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