Do you think guys or girls are more nervous about having sex with someone they just met?

[Anonymous]

[Anemone978]

I think both are nervous.. lol but who knows...
I made out with a guy I just met because I was nervous... he said it was good... and then he tried to have sex and got mad I wouldn't let him take my pants off 😅

I can't forget his lips they were so lush and soft.. but he obviously never forgot me either because he hits me up all the time asking to connect again.. I know we don't love each other but there is some kind of lust between us.. but I am scared to see him again.. 😳

[Mac-One]

@ anemone978 You teased him, got him excited, and just left him hanging? Did you do anything to give him any relief or did you just enjoy leaving him frustrated?

[Mac-One]

@anemone978 ...

[Anemone978]

@Mac-One I left him hanging that night.. I didn't enjoy teasing him just things were progressing too fast so I stopped it.. then we just laid there in silence for 10 minutes then he drove me home. I met up with him again 3 weeks later and I was gonna have sex with him and we were fooling around but my mom came and kicked him out the house so both time he got blue balls.. He still hits me up but I figure its best we don't hookup again because I do like him...

[AsaKyo]

I wouldn't have intercourse with someone I just met, so I don't know

[AviatorTom]

They're probably both nervous, but the guy has to physically perform while the girl is just a willing recipient.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I'm only nervous because I know I'm gonna cum too fast. Girls are amazed at how fast I cum

[RobT312]

Impossible to know. But if 2 people have a connection and want to have sex, I’d say neither

[Adam1978]

Neither because if they were they wouldn't be sluts, and would hold off with sex to later.

[CoolCatMar1]

They aren't sluts. Also some people have sex from the first day because they had a connection. Tbh 😂

[Adam1978]

No they are sluts independent of gender, if they jump to sex that fast. They can clearly not be nervous and this is unlikely the first time. It's a well exercised pattern. So high body count is assured, either already or in the future.

[CoolCatMar1]

Ok by your logic tomorrow i should cheat on my boyfriend or after we break up which never will happen i assure you or what? Of course not! This is stupid. Also you should get out more and get to know more people rather than listen to whatever your friends say to you is true or the toxic Instagram Reels. Also there are many loyal girls who had sex on the first date because the guy was hot and with a very good vibe and personality or made her laugh or feel comfortable. I for example felt comfortable and good with my current guy and that's why i did it. If you will say something toxic again better don't reply or i just won't reply back.

[CoolCatMar1]

To me my boyfriend is the best and most handsome man so I don't care about whatever the media calls the perfect 10 lol. They never appealed to me

[Adam1978]

You missing the point, men are unlikely to be loyal to a girl who put out that easily. The only guys that encourage the behavior is the guys that sleeps around. One data point is not enough to make an judgement. If you would take the success rate of couples who sleep together the first day compare to those who are a bit more responsible. You will find that the later has a much higher success rate. While the first will just burn through a lot of partners first before they find one that sticks. Since most dates lead to nothing. You only risk your health and if your really inresponsable your future.

[MikeTheBartender]

Girl. Men don't tend to be raped... Possibile but less likely.

[UncleBilll]

Girls I am never nervous meeting a girl and wanting sex, most times they are to shy or timid to let me spread her legs.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'd say ladies.

[turnpost]

I am surprised how even this is lol. Why would a girl be nervous? I mean if he thinks your fat like he would have made up his mind about you already.

[Surely]

I would say the guy would be more nervous. After all. Certain obvious things need to happen for the guy to perform sexually. The woman not so much.

[Pudsmucker]

I'd say both sexes would be quite nervous.

[najekim]

Most guys will get performance anxiety big time the first time.

[Cheerfull009]

First time, May be one or both get nervous

[Anonymous]

Guys are much more nervous.

[Anonymous]

Girls are the ones that call the shots.
We have to make the attempts and get shot down so it’s more nerve racking for us guy.

[Anonymous]

Neither lol just excited

[Anonymous]

Obviously the girls.