Do you think hookup culture will ever die out?

TheSpaceGnome Guru

I keep getting attention from attractive women, but all they want is casual sex, and I'm not interested in that.

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Chris_Morgan Xper 5
11 mo
To me the strange issue these days is that some women want to enjoy all that the hookup lifestyle has to offer. They want to sleep around with the hottest guys they can find online, have friends with benefits, and check off a bunch of wild sex acts from their bucket lists. Then they want to meet a good guy when they're in their 30's who isn't promiscuous so they can fall in love and get married.
That great guy they're looking for either got married in his 20's and already has kids, or he's not looking for a woman who has lived the hook up lifestyle. She's mad that he's judging her past, and he's mad that she thinks she deserves him and the fairy tale ending after everything she did with other guys.
I think the internet is keeping hookup culture alive in a big way and it's interesting to see what the future holds. Things are changing.
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- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  "They want to sleep around with the hottest guys they can find online, have friends with benefits, and check off a bunch of wild sex acts from their bucket lists." This is pretty much all I'm getting, I honestly never thought I'd hate a compliment this much.. And honesly its weird, 80% of the women who hit on me say I look 15, I'm not a "10" or anything in my opinion, so I figured I'd get someone based on my personality, not my looks. "Then they want to meet a good guy when they're in their 30's who isn't promiscuous so they can fall in love and get married." Fucking where? Most of the women who just want in my pants these days, are in their 30s, where the fuck are the ones you were talking about? 😔
- Chris_Morgan
  11 mo
  Well a lot of people who sleep around also become addicted to having casual sex with a variety of people. Even if she's looking for that ring on her finger, the white picket fence, and the 2 kids and a dog, she's still possibly gonna try to keep her friends with benefits, cheat, or maybe convince him to have an open marriage. That's why the serious guys are skeptical about marrying those women and judge them for their past.
- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  Yeah thats gross, I'd definitely judge over that. I don't want kids, or a white picket fence, and I prefer cats, but I do want a wife who's not a slut.

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Bethany22 Yoda
11 mo
Really? i did not know that women nowadays prefer hookups. I'm so naive. No it probably won't die down given the rise of dating apps.
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- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  At the very least, the ones who like me do. I'm not exactly a prude, but I still want an actual relationship, and with how my lifestyle is, apps are my only option.

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tonamimargaux Xper 5
11 mo
Where can I find a man like you?
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- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  In video game lobbies for challenging games (not mmos), on dating sites if you filter properly, in artist posting sites, in arcades, in a toy store, collcable shop, or video game shop, in a natural history museum, in a comicon/dragoncon, or at a zoo. You will never find us in bars, clubs, concerts, parties, parks, or sports events.
- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  And also here apparantly since I'm on here.
- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  collectable shops*
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- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  Also online gaming and drawing accounts for 60% to 80% of my time most days. The outings are special treats, not routine.
- tonamimargaux
  11 mo
  Okay so getting straight to the point what do I have to do to impress you? Lol
Juxtapose Guru
11 mo
Not with how thirsty guys are and how easy the internet makes it for these women!
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- Juxtapose
  11 mo
  I'm not really impressed by casual sex so I'm looking for a stable relationship with a woman who can really learn how to please me, emotionally and physically. I will return the kindness in spades, most of the time I'm way more attentive than my partners.
- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  I HATE casual sex, I don't understand why people do it in a world where stds and unplanned pregnancy exist.
- Juxtapose
  11 mo
  Apparently the commonality of HPV and herpes doesn't deter them.
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- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  Only a small percentage of the population has those, but thats high enough to deter any sane person.
- Juxtapose
  11 mo
  I think one in five people in the USA have herpes.
- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  Thats definitely not accurate, i'd say its more like 1 out of 5,000, most people don't have any stds. Then again, I suppose it matters where you are, I heard in cali a lot of people were spreading them on purpose.
- Juxtapose
  11 mo
  Where are you getting your information? That is not right at all.
  
  "Fifty percent to 80 percent of U. S. adults have oral herpes."
  
  www.hopkinsmedicine.org/.../oral-herpes
  
  "HPV infection is extremely common; it is estimated that there are more than 14 million new infections in the US each year and more than 80 percent of sexually active men and women will be infected in their lifetime."
  
  www.nfid.org/.../
- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  That data is false information.
- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  the fact that they say 50% to 80% clearly states its a blind guess based on algorithms of how fast it COULD spread, with no actual infectaion rate data to back it up. In reality very few people have any stds.
- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  infection*
- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  Hippa laws actually prevent avcurately counting the number of infected people. So the only way to measure it is to ask people if they have been infected individually, because sharing that data with any sort of third party without patient consent, is illegal.
- Juxtapose
  11 mo
  I imagine they factor that into their calculations and stay on the conservative side.
- TheSpaceGnome
  11 mo
  They don't, the numbers on that webpage are absurdly inflated.