Do you think I’m obsessed with sex?

Question

I literally had sex yesterday, well not even 24 hours yet and I wanna have sex again. My body count has gone up by 5 this year because I just love it. I could have sex all day everyday and when the person has nothing left in them anymore for a while I just wanna cry. This sounds like a troll but I’m being honest. I just love it and I’ve even had sex with two guys in one night before because I just like having sex. Do you think i have a problem? It only started this yesr when I first started having sex and now i just can't stop. I think I’d cry if I didn’t have sex now for more than a month.

tiffany_g · Accepted Answer

You are. That's not necessarily a bad thing in and of itself, but you need to be very careful.

You have to ask yourself if you're ready to be a mother, because birth control can and does fail. I feel unduly privileged because I can lay naked with my legs wide apart in a prison yard and never have to worry about pregnancy, but for a woman capable of getting pregnant you are engaging in the only activity known to result in pregnancy so you need to ask yourself if you're truly ready for that possibility.

You also need to worry about disease. Condoms break. They slip off. They can have manufacturing defects not picked up by quality control. They may keep you safe from now until the age where a man thrusting into you is enough to break your hip. Then again, you could have a mishap tomorrow or a quality control inspector could fall asleep on the job and your life will be forever changed, maybe even significantly shortened.

You also have to ensure that it doesn't prevent you from functioning. If you go to work, go home, fuck like a rabbit overdosing on Viagra, and go into work the next morning rested enough to be productive that's fine, as long as you're protecting yourself. If you lose jobs because morning quickies make you late too many days, or start missing family events because you have the chance to get laid, or you let important relationships fall by the wayside in your pursuit of sex then you have a problem that needs to be addressed.

This could be temporary, like the friend I had who talked non-stop about sex after she lost her virginity but by the end of college regarded any sex stories as inappropriate and wouldn't say a thing about her sex life, or it could be permanent like me.

If you look through my opinions you might aspire to achieve my body count, but that would be a mistake. My numbers are the result of giving up. I'm tired of life and suicide by sexual Russian roulette will bring me more pleasure than suicide by pills or drowning.

If you care about your life and want to make it to a healthy old age you need to pick a guy, let him be the only man for you, and make sure that you're the only woman for him. Try to keep your body count in the single digits and get your desires under control until you find a body that you want next to you for the rest of your life.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Nothing wrong with being enthusiastic about sex, but it does seem at this level you're looking for dopamine hits, trying to feel high, and that desire can become obsessive, a fixation.

Alexandrubaschet08 · Accepted Answer

I think you are a nymphomaniac.
Personal i search for such a girl as a girlfriend. I never have a girlfriend who can last longer then me in the desire of sex.
It's say this nymphomaniac, is a problem that need treetmant. But personal i don't see any problem. Have fun girl. You know what you need and from wher to get it.

Mikelaughs · Accepted Answer

There is nothing wrong with having a strong sex drive.  There are things to he cautious about, like STDs, etc. What is the underlying reason for wanting it so much? Hmu if you want to talk about it.

SouthernSweet · Answer

No. Some of us just have higher sex drives. Im the same way. As long as you don't let it cause you problems in your personal and professional lives. Do what you enjoy, just stay safe about it.

MCheetah · Answer

I seriously doubt an actual woman wrote this.

BigSis · Answer

That's not weird. I can't relate to the body count thing, but I have it multiple times a day with my man. Why not? It's fun.

Faith18letsgo · Answer

I think it’s fine and normal as long as you’re practicing safer sex, and it’s not getting in the way of your life. That said if it is I would look for people to cuddle with non sexually and do lots of exercise.

JPrez · Answer

Send pics, short bio and particular needs. Answer forthcoming.

slatyb · Answer

Seems normal for a healthy person under 50.

El_Dorado · Answer

Yes you're, in my opinion. Just focus on other things.

ColHathi · Answer

Maybe. Have you trying laying off anything sex related for a while? Maybe, say, a couple weeks? Works wonders for me.

Snowman666 · Answer

Not obsessed normal

Wise4myage · Answer

You might be a nympho, but so what? Enjoy yourself and have fun.

Tiffanyloves2swallow · Answer

Nope

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Sounds like you should take a break for a few months to find outif you are a sex addict then figure out if you want to seek help for it if

jasco · Answer

It's fine to have a high sex drive, i just hope that sex drive won't get u into any trouble

MarkyMark77 · Answer

dont worry your prolly just going through the intital phase! and sex is fun enjoy it!! is it random guys or friends with benefits or bfs or what?

BensGlory · Answer

Nothing wrong with it, sound like your a nympho, if that's the correct term, where a females love to have sex a lot, if you want to chat about it message me