Do you think I should have been banned?

[FenderMustango]

I was a member of Adultfolio. com a site for photographers and models to have portfolios and arrange shoots that are more adult style photography. I was recently banned after contacting a women arranging a shoot. I asked hwr if she wanted to stay over in the hotel as the shoot would be an evening shoot. everything seemed fine untill I asked her that. Then all of a sudden my account is blocked. I messaged the site ans they told me that was wrong to message a women about staying in a hotel. Considering the site allows you to pretty much photograph hardcore porn do you think I was wrong to be banned. When I was legitmetly asking on saftey ground if she didn't feel comfortable traveling back from London in the night. I do not know if she reported me or if the site can spy on your messages. Just wanna know if you think I was right to be banned.

[MrMysteryMan]

I think they did this because you made her uncomfortable or they've had issues in the past of this happening to their clientele that issues happened from it and now they are careful of such things going on any longer. For damage control purposes. But they should have gotten more information from your side of things about this before banning you. Sounds like a knee jerk reaction and possibly from something the girl said to them, some fear she had about it or something.

[FenderMustango]

Well the site says they can ban you for no reason without justification. I have tried arguing my case to the owner of the site but he seems to not listen and just spills bull about how I should not have asked. When nothing their site rules says I couldn't ask about her stopping over.

[MrMysteryMan]

What does she say about the incident or have you talked to her about it?

[FenderMustango]

I can not because I was using the site to chat to her.

[FenderMustango]

So I have no way of knowing if the site spies on your messages or if she reported me.

[MrMysteryMan]

Ah I see. Yeah, you just have to be careful about inviting girls into private situations over internet forums of any sort nowadays, since a lot of women have been raped and taken advantage of through these ways. So sites tend to not fool around anymore with splitting hairs and if it seems sketchy at all or suggestive and could lead to issues, they don't want any part of it. Next time invite her through email or something more private than the site.

[FenderMustango]

Well I just find it contradictory when you can ask two models to have sex fine but when its comunication between model and photographer it is wrong.

[MrMysteryMan]

It's more about protecting the site's image as opposed to what goes on personally between two people.

[Myk13]

It doesn’t matter what your intentions are or were. Sexual harassment and physical threats are interpreted by the threatened party. End of discussion. I am not familiar with your situation or your local laws to cast any judgment upon you. I do however, wish you the best of luck as a photographer.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think you were in the wrong but the company might just be overly cautious and covering their asses.

[FenderMustango]

Well I've given up the owner has just messaged saying I am perminantly banned and no reason why if they clearly stated in the rules that It is ok to ask models to have sex with othwr models just not to stay over in the same hotel as the shoot.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like a site for pervs so everyone should be banned.

[FenderMustango]

check it out for yourselves. Adultfolio. com

[Opinion Owner]

That's not a site I want to see Thankyou.