Do you think I should let my boyfriend watch?

I recently bought a dildo to insert into my ass.
im conflicted as to whether I should let my boyfriend watch or just practice and if I like it, bring up anal? I’m afraid if I let him watch and I dislike it he will think that I want anal all the time.
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Alright so he isn’t an anal guy and would only do it if I wanted to. I got no pleasure out of it. Therefore, I’d say this myth is busted.
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  • Anal is an acquired taste. Women rarely love it the first time they do it. It takes time to associate the sensations of anal stimulation with sexual pleasure in the brain. But once you do, it can produce the most intense orgasms of all. I don't know how big your dildo is but you'd probably be better off with a small vibrator or slim vibrating dildo, and be sure you rub your clit while using it to have some orgasms. That's the best way to discover whether you like it. Give it some time before you give up.

    • No sorry I’ve tried it in the past and didn’t get anything out of it. It’s boring actually.

    • Also if you’re the guy who said he’d stop pleasing hid wife/girlfriend if she decided she didn’t like it. Or tell her that if she loves you she has to- that’s the beginning of an abusive relationship. She will leave eventually because you’re a scurve.

    • I'm not that guy. If it's not for you, that's fine. I was just trying to help you out. You do you. Thanks for the downvote just the same. Cheers

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  • Do whatever you want.
    No one cares at the end of the day. If your relationship flourish you win, if your relationship got damaged, you lose.

    At the end you are the one to win or lose.

    Do you think I should let my boyfriend watch?Do you think I should let my boyfriend watch?
    • How would it automatically be a consequence?

    • Everything you do or not do has a consequence. This is life.

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  • Normally I would say to absolutely let him watch, because love that. My boyfriend requests that I fuck myself with dildos so he can watch. But since you're afraid you won't like it and he'll then expect anal, it would be be best to not let him watch until you've decided you like it.

    • How often do you let your boyfriend watch you play with your dildo?

    • @DanTheMan1995Xx Pretty much whenever he asks me to. I guess maybe once per week.

    • Would you ever let him watch you playing with another guy? Is being watched a turn on for you?

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  • I'd suggest you let him watch but only after telling him that just because you're experimenting with anal doesn't mean you'll do it with him.

    This might help.

    Comfortable Anal Sex for Beginners: A Guide to the First Time ↗

    • Nope sorry didn’t like it. He isn’t that interested anyways. He’s more of an oral guy and vaginal.

    • It's good that you're on the same page.

  • I say practice first in private and find out if you like it first and then show him what you can do it'll turn him on more especially if you day you learned for him

    • Thank you! I didn’t like it.

  • Yeah, in my opinion, anal is overrated but that's just me.

    • It certainly isn’t anything I’m too crazy about. Kinda painful and dull.

    • Yeah, when your a guy and been inside a V, why would you want to put your D in that? Makes no sense to me.

  • Try it solo first, if you’re going to use the experience to decide what else you want to do.

    • Didn’t like it.

  • I would try it alone first. Chris Rock said it best: “Men can’t go back sexually, women can’t go back financially.”

    • Don’t know. I’d like to think people can feel free to try things together. If they don’t like it they shouldn’t have to do it anymore. It wasn’t that great by the way.

  • I think that’s disgusting. With all the sensitivity and pleasure of your pussy, why would you want to do that.

  • Would you ever consider letting him watch you playing with something inside you that isn’t a toy? Do you like to be watched?

    • My vagina absolutely. I’m pretty adventurous as long as I trust and love someone.

    • Well I meant something more along the lines of your vagina and a nice big shiny new cock 😅 I hope that isn’t offensive to ask

  • If you like someone to watch. I would love to watch. Like seeing a woman get off mostly however she can. I believe it's very hot. Sorry your boyfriend don't like anal. I like to follow up my fetish with my partner. She must be very good looking toned fit average not out of shape. It's difficult to find partner we can open up to completely, let alone fulfilling fetish.

  • Practice until your comfortable with letting him watch

  • If you let him watch then that surely means you want it.

    • Well gee I guess that means then since I tired I do. Nothing could be further from the truth. I hated it.

  • Don't let him watch it at all.

    • I d ok by like it anyways. I’ve tried before too and didn’t get anything out of it. It’s boring.

    • Pornography doesn't aroused l you?

    • Nope no means no. I said I don’t like it. Bye