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Do you think if you and your partner do one type of Threesome that you should be willing to do the other?

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  • I don't think you are obligated too. But that's how me and my one ex agreed to have a threesome. Since he wanted a ffm and I wanted a mfm. How we did it was I got to pick from his friends to join (if they wanted too of course) and then for his threesome he got to pick from my friends who were available.

    • That was kind of what we agreed to we did the MFM then when it came time to of FMF she said no

    • Wtf that's not nice of her.

    • I know I'm not really upset about not getting the fmf just that she lied

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  • Not really. You should only do sexual things that you want and enjoy. It's not a bargain.

    • But if you both agree to it beforehand though

    • I feel like she kind of tricked me

    • You can't really make deals on stuff like that. She shouldn't have made it to begin with but I understand why she would be too scared to do it. Did you enjoy having another guy there to please her with you?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think you should at least be open to the idea and discuss it properly with your partner. If it is something that either of you really just don't feel comfortable with then no of course not, but then the other partner would have to happy to go along with one without getting the other or do neither.

    • What she said she wanted to do I am mfm and if we did then we could do a fmf. We did did the mfm now she said no to the fmf

    • Well it's always someone's choice to change their mind but I could understand you being upset at her possibly agreeing to it just to get you to agree to the mfm. Doesn't mean you can do much about it. Have you discussed exactly why she doesn't want to do it? Honestly I'd be thinking she never wanted to do the fmf just said that so she could get her mfm 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • Yes she admitted that she never intended on doing it and that she just said it cuz she didn't actually think I would find another woman to join us

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  • I don't think committed couples should do any threesome.

    • Why is that?

    • Because the experience of others has told me that one partner often reluctantly agrees to the threesome but really doesn't want to do it, and afterwards, there is often a great deal of jealousy and resentment. For me, commitment means being monogamous sexually as well as emotionally. If you want to have sex with multiple partners, go for it. . . but why be in a committed relationship?

    • Yeah good point. My girl she wanted to do mfm threesome and said that if I letter then we could do a fmf. Well we did the mfm it went ok but now she's saying no to the fmf

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  • No. You should do what you're comfortable with.
    Especially when it comes to inviting other people in, it's not something you should force a partner to. - Or be forced to.

    • What if it was something that you both agree to beforehand though

    • You can always find out your boundary is different than what you thought and you can always revoke consent. If I mention several things I would be open to try and we do one of those things and then I find out I might not want to do the other things then I don't need to do that thing.

    • I guess I just kind of feel lied to. So she told me she really wanted to do mfm 3sum. If I let her then she would do a FMF. So we did the m f m a few times and now she says no to the FMF

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  • Sure

  • I think it's fair. You don't have to, but if she's willing to do that for you, you should be willing to do it for her, in my opinion.

    • Well it happened the other way around I did it for her now she's not doing it for me

    • Well then the same still applies. If you were willing to do it for her, she should be willing to do it for you. Relationships should be give and take.

    • Ya that's what I thought

  • It should strictly be what you both personally enjoy. For example my wife isn't into women, so ffm threesome isn't up her alley (though we tried it before). However mfm she's more into, which I'm fine with.

    • At least she was willing to try

    • We just had an agreement to do one of each did the mfm but now she's saying no to the fmf

  • Fair's fair.
    If she pulled that then there's no limit to her bullshit

  • No. It's not a zero sum situation.

  • Nope. If there's any disagreements we just don't do either threesome at all. Recipe for disaster.

  • I’m never having a threesome.

  • Nope.

  • Sure it might be fun.

  • Unless the same person asks for both.

  • Yes... fair is "FAIR"

  • Nope

  • No I don't think so.
    As an example my girlfriend is Bi sexual and she likes Women and had Sex with women already.
    I would never have Sex with a Guy, even the thought of another Guy would instantly Turn me off so why should I have a mmf when I am Not turned on by Guys but she is by girls

  • I DONT GET THE QUESTION

    • My girl she said she wanted to do a mfm threesome and that if I did then she would do a fmf. We did the mfm a couple times. But now she said no to the fmf

    • You should have never done a threesome anyway. How can you still look at her after another man did her in front of you... regardless if she is pulling a bait and switch then DUMP HER.

  • No. Women are more sexually fluid than men so will far more comfortable with FMF than most men are with MFM.

    • Well I did mfm for her now she won't do the fmf

    • That sucks awamp water.

  • If that’s what you agreed to, then yes you have to go through with it

    • That was what we agreed she said she wanted to do a mfm and then we could do a fmf so we did the mfm a few times but now she saying no to the fmf

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