Do you think it is rude to ask someone whether they are a virgin or not?

I personally do not think it is rude

but I think it is none of people's business whether I am or not a virigin.

I think some people should learn how to mind their own business.
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  • Yes, it is impolite social behavior. It obviously makes you uncomfortable. That’s pretty clear from your own post. You’re like: It’s none of your business/Mind your own business. That seems like a justified response considering people’s sex life are usualy private affairs.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's hard to say whether it is or not. But you definitely don't have to answer that if somebody asks you. Everyone feels different about it so it could be quite touchy if they're anxious or feel embarrassed about having their virginity still. Most won't think about this though.

    • @PBandJ_Nerd , How are you doing?

    • @beatcoock I'm doing good. I just haven't slept yet and it's 4:28 AM in the morning.

  • Only if you are close, but other than that

    Do you think it is rude to ask someone whether they are a virgin or not?

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm with you. It's none of their business. I've said for decades that when it comes to sexual history, don't ask, don't tell.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No, it's not rude. But you're right, it's kind-of reserved for certain situations, like if you're dating somebody. You don't just go around asking.

  • I'd never ask anybody unless the day I'm going to have sex with that person... but yes, totally depends on other person's notion wheather he/she will take this rude or not

  • No it is not rude to ask, but there is no obligation to answer either.

  • It's nobody's business except your own. It's rude and uncalled for to ask that question.

  • Without reason, yes. In an intimate situation where intercourse was imminent, no.
    Knowing you are a virgin would change my approach.

  • No it’s not rude at all.


    Although I could see why it would INTIMIDATE some guys

  • I’m a private person so people asking about my sex life and body count gets on my nerves

  • If I am dating you I want to know. I won't have sex with a virgin before 6 mont bgg s, half as long if a girl I am with already knows how sex feels.

  • Do you really need to ask? Does it matter?

  • nope i’m not having sex with a virgin

  • Why it is rude?

    It is just like we are aksing them

    • I said I do not think it is rude. I just felt like people were not minding their own business when they asked me if I was a virgin or not.

  • Its not rude to ask however they should be able to choose not to reply without judgement. I also think that anyone that hears the answer shouldn't say anything to others

  • if it’s someone you’re going to be getting in a relationship with then yes it’s perfectly fine to ask because (this is an analogy so don’t get triggered about ‘objects’ )
    you don’t buy a car without knowing how many drivers it’s had and investing in a relationship takes a lot more time money and emotion then buying a car.

  • Yes, I do think it is rude to ask. Yes, I do think people need to mind their own business and that is why asking is rude. However, I also think that if you are sleeping with someone, or are in a relationship where that is a possibility, then it becomes their business.