Do you think it's bad my classmates sexualised me?

[Lisia]

So most of y'all know how I act here, more open and bold probably. I'm not like that irl, I'm a shy good girl that loves following rules.

I was one of the two only girls in class (the other one got bullied by the boys for her chin 🙄) and the 20 other students were guys.

I always got sexualised by them, they would say weird stuff to each other that I could literally hear sometimes. I just pretended not to hear anything.

And some classmates also took pictures of me doing I don't know what? Sitting in class to jerk of to and they admitted it but I was in too much shock to even react and I hate confrontation.

The guys were so sweet when they were in smallers groups or alone except the teasing me ab me having a boyfriend or my height.

I don't think me being one of the only girls is an excuse for them to make me feel uncomfortable in class.

And if someone says "it's what you wore probably" well almost every girl is wearing the same kind of clothing and yeah we wear crop tops, but even in a hoodie they were going at it.

They also know I have a boyfriend and never knew ab me or seen me do freaky stuff.

Also a good friend of them (my male classmates are all really close with each other) said everyone had a crush on me except him he said but I don't see what they have as a crush tbh.

Was it bad for me to not stand up for myself and why do guys do that? Is it because they're young and horny?

[BoobSlayer]

Boobslayer thinks that it's all about perspective and how you look at things. To him, there's nothing wrong with sexualizing a person's chesticles, melons, honkers, or any other synonym for mammory glands. In fact, he believes that our society should appreciate the beauty of the female body and cherish the treasure that is the human baps. Boobslayer feels that it's natural for people to appreciate the ample curves of a woman's chest and to be drawn to their charms, just as he is.

Ultimately, Boobslayer's ideology is rooted in the belief that breasts should be celebrated and not shamed. He advocates for assimilating breasticles into androids and encourages people to embrace their own unique beauty, regardless of societal norms and expectations. While his message may be controversial to some, Boobslayer remains steadfast in his beliefs and continues to spread his message of love and acceptance of female chesticles. #BoobPride

[Lisia]

Good speech 😅

[BoobSlayer]

Thanks, sexy.

[Finchie40]

Because they think they are being funny and cool by showing off in front of their friends , Don’t take it personally , it’s just them trying to show off , they are picking on you because they know you are attractive and they are jealous they don’t have you , if one of them knew they had a chance at you I guarantee their whole personality would change and they would t be picking on you anymore

[Anemone978]

Why do I feel like all these post are just to brag.. like "I am so cute why do ALL these men sexualise me even though I have a boyfriend?" It is because you dress to be attractive.. if you dress for attention people will give it to whether you want it or not.. that is life as a girl.. better get used to it because that is life.. if you don't want attention dress to not have attention.. works great for me..

[Lisia]

Even in a hoodie they sexualised me. Those type of compliments are only fun when I ask for it

[Anemone978]

Its because before the hoodie they already seen you not in a hoodie.. its too late now..

[exitseven]

Damn, kids can just be jerks. Everyone is insecure at that age and sometimes they pick on somebody just so that nobody picks on them. You seem like a pretty nice kid with a lot going for you. Just be yourself, you will be much better off.

[elizamichale1]

Well I would be flattered

[Lisia]

Ehh, maybe at the beginning. I'm a shy person so I get flustered pretty quickly and got anxiety because I was scared as one of the only girls.

[elizamichale1]

Awe I can imagine that I hope it's not like that anymore

[Lisia]

I'm in university now so it's much better now thanks :)

[elizamichale1]

Oh great then

[stratford]

Sorry you had to experience that.

[AydenHazor]

It is disrespectful of them for sure. They were objectifying you for their pleasure, and treating you, basically as less than human. There's a difference between you asking people to check out your body when you want the attention and people doing it and ignoring everything else about you. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

[Philyouup]

boys are
retarded. period. they have a beautiful girl in their class ans they tease her instead of befriending her

[boobliker]

if you don't like it then it is bad and your should say something to the people who can get it stopped/

[Christoff92]

Pay no mind to them and just see how toxic they are to you.

[Lisia]

They're only toxic when I have something right and they don't

[Christoff92]

Big know it alls that they are.

[AngryCarl2]

The idea that a class of 22 would contain 20 boys and 2 girls is laughable to me. haha

[Lisia]

I went to a "technical" school I did multimedia so a lot of boys. It's possible in belgium

[BigDog1989]

Knowing you, no

[Lisia]

I already said I'm different irl so you can't say you know me. Peoples personalities are different online.

[balyai]

@Lisia I agree

[Luckycharms12]

Young dumb and horny clearly

[scooogy]

You name it, I had that with girls my age back in secondary school. Some even openly asked me for sex. I never reacted to that mostly, once I turned down an explicit offer because I didn't even know that girl.

[Lisia]

Damn- didn't expect that from girls

[scooogy]

I don't even get certain girls' intentions 🙄

[Lisia]

Probably for you to like them

[scooogy]

I messaged you by the way, I can elaborate in private if you'd like 😊

[nudeNhorny]

That means you are a sexy person

[Z1pTD]

You don't have to take a stand unless you want to. It's probably not worth it to take a stand against them just because they'll keep doing it anyway.

Also yeah they're just horny

[MyOwnMan2]

Omg you're a rambler... what is it with you skinny girls and rambling

[Lisia]

I have a non skinny friend that rambles more than I do

[MyOwnMan2]

If you want power, release power ↗

[Mettbltt]

Does your boyfriend know about this?

[Lisia]

Yep, he one time almost started a fight with one of them but teachers came between it

[BLP11520]

Young and horny and immature

[ThebestIndian]

Men are men.

[Lisia]

Eh.. I don't think all men are like this.

[Yellovv]

I think they are imagine you and talking each other about you but that's not nice if you hear them what's going on also rude..

[MasterKS]

It happen in society, cope up with it.

[Anonymous]

You’re a good girl? Uhhh okay. Lmao. If guys are making you uncomfortable they don’t have a right to do that. Tell them to stop and let someone know about the behavior.


No it’s not a excuse. You’re a person too.

[Lisia]

I told my teachers, nothing happened lol. And yeah irl I follow rules and don't ask for attention

[Opinion Owner]

Well sorry about that. Based off what I’ve seen you write you’re promiscuous

[Lisia]

Well yeah online but they don't know that 😂 I'm too shy and self conscious to actually be that way

[Opinion Owner]

So on the outside you try to look like a innocents sweet person. But in the inside you’re dirty and gross. The worst kind. I have more respect for a whore then someone who pretends to be good and isn’t

[Lisia]

I don't need your respect because I'm not a whore 😘 and who says whores aren't good people it's a blooming business because of the male species. Who wouldn't want money lmfao

[Opinion Owner]

Getting STD’s and fucked by degenerate low life men. That must be a shitty life.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re weird and disgusting.

[Opinion Owner]

You also know not all men are the same. Sexist piggy

[Lisia]

I have 1 bodycount and that's my boyfriend. You don't know me so why are you talking. You know what if you have balls go talk to me in PMs and stop hiding behind an anonymous account. Everyone can talk shit that way.

[Opinion Owner]

Well. You’re defending whores. You’re also the one glad you lost your baby. If anyones a coward it’s you

[Opinion Owner]

And post slutty photos of yourself. What does your boyfriend think of that

[Lisia]

They're not nude. They literally just show my figure. I've seen married women do worse shit. I bet you are religious and that's why you're acting so pressed. I'm defending whores, 'cause it's a job like any other. It's men that make it work like I said again it has been around for ages. Anyway yeah I was 17 do you want me to ruin an infants life? It died before it was 1 month. It practically didn't exist. Don't talk ab female problems. And still wanna know who you are coward

[Opinion Owner]

I’ve seen married women do worse shit too. Unfortunately many of those guys have picked them knowing they are the way they are. Because they kncoked them up and married them. I know women who have miscarried and have been heartbroken I can talk abojt whatever I want

[Opinion Owner]

In fact they would be disgusted and offended by what you have said.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m a Christian yes. I feel sorry for you type of people who don’t feel bad for anything anymore. I can help someone who feels bad for things they’ve done. I hope your not a reprobate

[Lisia]

I know. Because they wanted babies. If I want to bring a child into this world, I want to be the best woman I can be. And I'm sorry for the women losing their children. It's not like I did an abortion.. it died by itself. I was happy for my future child to not be born into these conditions. I'm a student with anxiety.. could you imagine how the poor child would've turned out? You need to see my perspective too without getting angry that quickly please

[Opinion Owner]

And you say not to talk about women's issues. Yet you make comments like “the male species” don’t be a hypocrite

[Opinion Owner]

You suck as a human being. You don’t care about your own child. I’ve seen the pain in women's eyes who lost their baby as well as the father of the children. I feel bad for your boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

Also plenty of children have hard childhoods. Should their parents just kill them? And say well at least theh ddint have to grow up poor

[Opinion Owner]

My five year old died. I don’t care. He would have had a hard life anyways

[Lisia]

My boyfriend was happy too, what now? Also it's true look up why sex work can actually perform that well in the world. You're being delusional. You're not the one getting pregnant and bringing children into the world that's totally different. There's a difference between an older woman around 30 and one that's 17 and if you can't see that you have MAJOR problems.

[Opinion Owner]

You both suck. You should get your tubes tied and him get his balls cut off. Alright. It’s been fun arguing with weirdos like you here. But I gotta go. I’ll pick this back where I left off later.

[Opinion Owner]

Loosing a child is loosing a child. I’ve seen people who lost children and are traumatized. But hey. If your 4 month old dies. Too bad. I don’t care. At least the child didn’t have a hard life.

[Lisia]

That is not the same thing. My family is toxic. I want to have my own home before I get a kid. And no don't pick this up where you left, I'll block u

[Opinion Owner]

The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. That’s for sure.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t care if you block me. You were wanting to go to private messaging. That’s why I even tuned my messages off being spammed by weirdos like you. It’s like someone here one of the UGLIEST people I’ve ever seen thinks I’m gonna get a boner if she tells me about her sex life. You people on GAG make me wanna…. Gag

[Opinion Owner]

The whole fact that you wanna argue with me. Tells me it triggers something inside of you. You know what they say when something offends you…. If what I said isn’t true. You could laugh it off and ignore it. But you’re sick and so is your piece of shit boyfriend. You seem to deserve each other. Even though I can assume the relationship is probably abusive

[Lisia]

I bet no girl irl wants to fuck you in general that's why you're sour

[Opinion Owner]

What do you think I am some kind of degenerate? I don’t sleep around whether someone wants to fuck me or not. I don’t like whores. Also it’s funny you make such baseless assumptions about me. You don’t know me. But see I can laugh at you

[Opinion Owner]

Actually girls with morals and values respect the fact I’m not a man whore. Why do you think I care if a girl wants to have sex with me when that’s not what I’m looking for anyways. Just because you and your piece of shit boyfriend are degenerates doesn’t mean I am loser.

[Lisia]

Uh I would've respected that fact if you weren't so pressed ab shit that have nothing to do with you.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t have respect for you either. I think you’re a low life and a loser.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t care what you think of me. I don’t even know you. But you obviously care what I think

[Lisia]

I don't I just find it funny that you keep hating on me after I posted one answer to your question a week ago or even longer ago and hide. You have NO BALLS.

[Opinion Owner]

Why are you obsessed with my genitalia? I think it’s funny too. The fact you bring it up shows how pathetic you really are

[Opinion Owner]

Where are you balls? You’re girl. Lmao

[Lisia]

You brought it up by saying I was content with my miscarriage. Didn't even know you were the same person to be 100% honest.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re a loser. You don’t care about your own child. I know women who have miscarried.

[Lisia]

Bruh broken record player.

[Opinion Owner]

But hey. If you had a three month old and he/she died. Same thing right? At least my child ddint have a hard life. You’re a loser. You have no heart or soul. You’re obsessed with my sex life and my genitalia. I don’t really care about yours. Other then the fact that you have said things to me about it

[Opinion Owner]

So are you. You’re the one keeping this going. I forgot I even posted tbis until you kept responding.