Do you think it's cheating if your partner starts touching or flirting with the same sex?

I'm curious what people think if it's considered cheating if someone is winking, or creating some tension with the same sex
Yes!
Vote A
No (explain)
Vote B
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Girl Guy
0 0

Superb Opinion

  • If they are paying more attention to the same sex than you; then you may have lost them. Sometimes it is only a fantasy, or it could be a curiosity. The problem is, once that door is open, a lot of times is it is easy for one to go through.

    I love women, and only women. I have talked to my fellow men, and found a few who have flirted with other men; and some of that lot actually went all the way with the other men. When I asked the question, they basically said, they were drunk, had been chatting all night, and once they had them alone, and realized it was a guy; they basically said o. k., lets do it, I have been chatting you up all night, and even though I now know you are a guy, I will not get anyone else this late, so pull them down, and let's go for it.

    What makes that scenario really bad, is that their female friends who like them, warned them, and they did not listen. So, now they have to make a decision, and they do the guy. All the had to do was listen the real woman next to them was into them, and they would of had the real thing. And the girl who had liked them; she went looking for another man who would pay attention to her.

    Most times when a partner is with the opposite sex, and they start flirting with the same sex; alcohol is involved, and it does not always end well.

    I have also heard of a boyfriend, and girlfriend out, and the girlfriend was touching, and flirting with another woman, even doing things in lip lock with her tongue. The boyfriend, is getting off on this, because he thinks she may bring her home for both of them. That may happen, bur in most cases; he may lose his girlfriend to the other woman.

    There are varied opinion on all of this. It is so much better to flirt with, and touch the person you are with; build that sexual tension, and desire in them; so when you finally get home, they will attack you like a wild beast; desiring your whole being right them and there.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm straight enough to give laser beams lessons, but I've dated bi girls, and I don't have any problem if she messes around with other girls. I just insist upon being the only man in her life - and that's exactly what the bi-girls I've dated have always wanted anyway (for me to be the only guy).

    • I'm the same! I always found it weird how I don't seem to mind it if its with other girls. Like I legit don't feel anything against them doing it

Most Helpful Girls

  • Touching or flirting of a sexual nature is cheating in my book whether they doing it with a female or male...

  • cheating is doing anything that your husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend isn't aware of,

    • Exactly if you are aware and no problem with it its not an issue. Hot to watch when she does

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

4 15
  • It is Inappropriate behavior. xx

  • Yes of course it is. You can change the goalposts as much as you like. If the ball goes in, its STILL a goal!

  • No though I would encourage her to share.

  • Honestly if my man were to act that sus with another man I'd just be grossed out.. I'm not attracted to bisexual dudes AT ALL.
    And it's plain out disrespectful to your partner.

  • Yes. No questions asked.

  • Flirting is okay. Frenching is not. Sexual touching is definitely not okay.

  • No, but it would really start to piss me off if I saw it.

  • Yes of course

  • Of course it is you tell me would you flirt and touch the same sex?

    • Nah I'm straight lol

    • Good

  • It's not cheating, but it's inappropriate behavior.

  • I dnt cheat me n my girl fuck bitches TOGETHER feel me🔥

  • Yes, but it's a lighter form of cheating to me at least. I'd probably find it hot (to a degree) and it would hurt me but not as much as it would, if he flirted with another girl. I would just accept the fact that he would also need some dick and ask him for a threesome.

  • It’s still sexual advancement

  • Girls cam be girls with each other. Its all playful

  • Yeah

  • Yes that's definitely cheating

  • I think it depends on the type of relationship the couple have.

    If there is no physical contact it's not cheating in the traditional sense of the word.

    Some people have open relationship where each partner can have sex with anyone else.

    From what I've been told most girls are attracted to other girls at least a little.

  • yes and it is one reason i would never be in a relationship with a bisex women

  • It's basically the same thing, unless your partner is in favor of it as a lot of it guys are with their girlfriends. I actually had a girlfriend that liked to fantasize about me and other guys knowing I was a bit bisexual. Really turned her on.