Do you think it’s funny men say the youngest they’d sleep with is 18?

It means they’d go younger if only it was legal.

I just wonder where’s the limit for a man, what’s the age of female, you wouldn’t sleep with, if all the laws and rules were gone?

When I was in my teens, lots of 20+ and 50+ men hit on me and I started feeling gross of older men. So I only date younger or the same age guys.
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  • It is kind of a weird hypothetical as it skips over all the events leading up to sex. Like, I probably wouldn't hang out with someone younger than 25 or so in the first place. And I'd still view them as maybe not a child but certianly childish any younger than 30 and thus wouldn't be talking to them in a way that invites flirting.

    So, realistically, my lower age limit is about 30. But in theory if an 18 year old approached me and bluntly asked for sex in a way that somehow eliminated all my suspicions about some ulterior motive, then yeah she's getting fucked. But thats an enormous "if" that relies heavily on me being too horny at the time to think of the risks. As such, I can't say it will last long enough for her or even I to enjoy it. And as for an age limit on that unrealistic hypothetical scenario that will never happen I would just say "no longer looks like a child." I dont know what age that happens but I can't say for sure that I would check ID if, for example, a girl who looked 20 abruptly wanted me to fuck her, in case she is 17. I might, though.

    It's like the freaky Friday question. If a 40 year old and a 16 year old swapped bodies, which is it okay to fuck?

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  • Hum… looks and sex wise ide say 13 if the laws were changed however… at 13 she’s nowhere near my place in life so a relationships highly unlikely and I don’t hookup so sex is out of the question… still 12 or 13 is when women start to grow a more “feminine” figure and can start having kids. I think limiting such things by ages is arbitrary anyway because I know 30 yr olds that shouldn’t be having kids and kids that are more mature then 30 yr olds. With vastly different experiences in like based off age and the current atmosphere in relationships… I don’t see it working.

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  • Seems like it these days. But I have no room to talk as I’m into teen guys that are 18 myself and have slept with them.. I don’t think anything is wrong with it as long as he’s not just using the girl for sex or taking advantage of her just because she’s young because women want more of an emotional connection or expect more of that unless she is a hoe.

    • Or when he’s being a creep then yeah if she feels uncomfortable he needs to back off.

    • by the way asker with your reply to my other opinion it's so accurate and spot on!! Its nice to talk to someone who is similar to me and has confidence and drive. I believe too there's this glow up women have in their mid to late 20s from what acquaintances have told me and i actually had a glow up when i was 22 and feel hotter than ever at 23 than i did at 18. I just wish people would stop singling age out like guys for example lol but if they can like younger girls we can like younger guys all we want.

  • With so many people in this world, I would want nothing to do with a minor.
    AlthoughI know many people who seem to be very serious and with a good reputation that hit on me when I was -18
    I didn't understand quite well back then but now it's disgusting.

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  • Great point you are making about men saying the youngest is 18! You are also probably right they would go younger if they didn't think they would go to jail!

    My wife was 25 when we started dating and I was 35. That is the largest age difference I ever experienced. We've been happily married for over 25 years. Given that situation I never even had to think about dating a much younger lady while in my 40's or 50's or more.

    I also understand when these older horn dogs were hitting on you as a teenager why you got grossed out. Common on guys !!! Unless you are on a Sugarbaby site, don't think proper young ladies are really after you!

  • What they mean is "I suspect the police sre monitoring this online chat"

  • The age of consent where I live is 15, which I think is acceptable if the other person is also of high school age.
    Still stupid af because of the teenage pregnancy risk.

    I personally don't do hookups so my lower age limit is realistically around 23~25.
    I'm not dating anyone who still lives with their parents/hasn't finished school yet.

  • If there were no laws regarding the age of consent, I would go for 16 years old girl because by then, they are physically as well as mentally mature (I heard girls mature comparatively faster than guys so it probably).

  • i had guys hitting on me since i was 12 so i know this isn't true when they say it

    • I am same, I got their attention since 13 and It felt so creepy I hated it. Partially the reason I don’t like older men anymore.

    • *have men figured out

  • My uncle and step-dad used to fly to Thailand because there it's legal to be with really young girls

  • The youngest I'd sleep with is 25 but I wouldn't date a 25 year old, they are too young for that.

    • Reading all the comments of men wanting 18-22, I kinda thought I am old at 25. Good to hear that.

    • Many guys sleep with women purely for their body, one thing that as a criteria for me, when I sleep with somebody I at least want some kind of connection of the mind, and some form of maturity. Honestly, and no offense to the younger girls, but I don't want to go to bed with an immature girl.

    • Hope my boyfriend will think the same when we get older.

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  • Statistically women between the age of 18 and 23 are the most attractive to men from the age of 18-80. Some things just never change, no matter how much you protest or shame men. Men are visual, if we see something sagging it's unattractive.

  • It's just an arbitrary age to note that they'd only sleep with adult women. In reality over time young women tend to be annoying and not worth dealing with. So a guy might say 18 at face value, but in reality they aren't willing to put up with an 18 year old or even a 25 year old. Just because they leave it open doesn't mean it reflect their actual taste. There is a bit more that goes into picking up girls than checking their id at the door.

  • I don't know.
    Female school teachers seem to be on quite a roll over the last few years screwing their 13-16 year old male students. I can't count the number of stories in the news over the last 10 plus years.

  • To me age does matter, since I am older 30ish would be the youngest I would go for, and even then that would be a bit young.

  • Well if the youngest theyd sleep with is 18 then thats the cut off limit meaning they won't go lower than that.

  • Not all men find teen girls hot but a lot do. That being said, most don’t violate the law by getting sexual with them.

    • I fantasize about very young, even preteen girls. I would never act on it though.

    • @ScotchAndTonic that’s too young. But I’m glad you don’t act on it.

  • At 63 my lower limit is roughly 35. I have been with a few that were younger (not going to say the actual age) but did not enjoy being with them. Sometimes as a group we love to play this game of guessing who was president (IN US) when you were born. I'm an Eisenhower baby. If you are a Bush baby or later I'm generally going to look past you!

  • Shoot when I was 18 my girlfriend was 16 and I remember thinking that was real young then. I would’ve been graduated and she would be going into sophomore year of high school not creepy just some loser shit tbh, she’s a mature hard working girl tho

  • youngest i would go is 19 oldest is prolly like 39, any younger i feel like i am taking advantage of someone and it feels gross

  • Lol. I can see that

  • I think the lowest they'd go is looks like a woman. So if a 15 year old passes that test, they would.

  • 22 is my minimum. Your topic reminds me of the nonsense of the age of consent. Mostly in Europe it is 16 but porn industry is 18 the minimum age. If a 16 year is allowed to fuck anyone older, there will be consiquences if that person is too much older than 16. Then there is the gray area. If those who are less than 16 have sex, then one turns 16 whie the other has 2 years to go till 16, it gets legally wierder than in the days both were under 16.



    I think 18 should be the real age of consent. That would minimize the gray are of 16 and 17.

  • Age of consent is 16 in every state in the US.

    • Not California

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