Do you think it’s really disturbing of me to want to have sex with a married man in his 40s and I am 20?

I am currently talking with a married guy and it honestly turns me on. I am not sure why. I get off on the idea that he is thinking about leaving his wife for me which probably won’t happen but it is for sure a confidence booster and I fantasize about him.
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  • Only reason he's talking to u is bc his wife's maybe denying him sex, ignoring him bc they're together too much, they have kids, jobs, and responsibilities that ur too young yet to understand. He doesn't give a shit about u, just ur youth, fresh pussy, and open ears. Be careful!

  • It's not that he is 40 & your 20. What is disturbing is he is married.

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  • I used to sext and exchange naked pictures with a married woman for a while.
    It's exciting, but those people are not gonna leave their spouses. They want to keep the marriage and the extra attention on the side. They're sick of their marriages and desperate for attention. Some of them also like to use the affair as a weapon to make their spouse jealous and get a reaction. You're getting yourself in the middle of a big mess that isn't worth the trouble. It's going nowhere but towards guilt and problems for you.

  • Fantasising is one thing.

    it’s realising he’s married and would not voluntarily leave his wife.

    just watch you don’t get hurt or wreck the marriage.

    yewh it will be a turn on

  • Absolutely not. Forget all these people who are saying otherwise. As long as you are happy and you stay legal then age don't matter

    • You know she is headed to break a family. Can you imagine the toll it would take on her. This is not gonna be a happy disneyland ending

    • You never know. If the dudes cheating anyway, he's not gonna stop just cause one girl passes. It's probably better the wife finds out sooner than later before more damage is done

  • You are gross. Go find some moron single guy, he ain't leaving his wife.

  • It's quite common actually, and totally understandable because we're just so damn hot 🤣But you're right to think he won't leave his wife, he isn't going anywhere, just telling you what you want to hear.

  • Let your dreams be dreams, kiddo. Not every fantasy needs be fulfilled.

    Being a homewrecker is always a shitty idea, no matter how good it all looks on the outside.

    Don't forget that if he's willing to leave her for you, now. Nothing stopping him leaving you for a younger one in a year or two either. Pussy is pussy after all and nothing special about yours when it's no longer tight enough.

  • Yes.
    They are married. Do you know what marriage is? That means they have sex with each other. You are not involved. You fantasize about ruining a marriage? That makes you sound like an awful person.

  • No that's normal. Women look for that type of steady and safe environment to have children in. Just survival instinct. Of course long term relationships like that usually don't work out.

  • No. I have almost always been with older

  • no... taste r different

  • You are a teenager that's why you feel like that. Try to stay away from him. You don't want to fall for that. It's gonna be a big mess

  • Yes I do, and you should stop.

  • Perfectly normal.

  • Homewrecker. Not disturbing only because It's kinda common. You want what you can't have and the play of that is intoxicating.

  • Its normal to find him attractive.

  • I think it's fantastic

  • well as long as it is just your desire and you dont act on it , it is okay

  • Some women like older men

  • Nope not at all.. it happens all the time.. it's kind of happened to me a few times (except I'm not married)

  • Nope. Pretty normal. You are into older man.

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