Do you think it sounds strange for a woman to have a fantasy about being raped by a man she thinks is handsome?

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  • It's the single most common fantasy that women have, so, no, not really.

    That's literally a key element in nearly every pulp fiction "romance novel" aka "bodice ripper" novel. I have an aunt who must have 1000 of those books, and they're all more-or-less the same. Hell, 50 Shades of Gray was mostly the same thing.

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  • "... fantasy about being raped by a man she thinks is handsome?"

    I don't think rape works that way. You can't say "STOP" while in the process of being raped because you think he's so so looking. This wouldn't be rape.

    I don't think it's rape that you're fantasizing about.

    The part I do find strange is the "handsome" part.

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  • It's a somewhat common fantasy. For victims of actual assault, carefully role-playing a consensual non-consent scenario is a way of taking their power back. It gives them the knowledge that they're with someone trustworthy because the moment they use a safeguard, it all stops.

  • I don't ever want to be raped. Handsome or not. What I do fantasize about is giving up control to someone and being used for pleasure. But that person would have to be trusted.

    • @krispw this predominantly what people want when they mention fantasy rape.

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  • Raped... well a little strange... but if that's how you would want to role play it... some people like it rough.

  • Its normal for people who have never been raped, if you've been raped... that is very strange.

    • And offensive tbh

    • @t-8900 yes it is, I had a co-worker once talk about how she wished a guy would rape her. She really wanted to have sex with a guy not her husband and have a reason why it wasn't cheating. I told her, rape isn't like that. She kept putting herself in situations where it could happen but the left the job, so not sure what happened. She really thought the rapist would take the time to please her while she begs him to stop, that she isn't consenting.

    • our society has become so twisted and wrong. its hard to deal with it all sometimes </3

  • If your fantasy is something that you want to have happen, then it isn't against your will, so why do you call it rape?

  • No.

    But it sounds like a fantasy that’s about as safe as playing with dynamite.

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  • It's not rape if you consent to it and actually wanting a guy to fuck you is pretty much the definition of consent

  • Believe it or not, many researches show that forced sex is one of the most diffused sexual fantasies in females from before 18 to over 40. A dominant partner is one of the most wanted things from women, again in several studies on the topic.
    Of course we are talking about normal women here, not feminists or that kinda stuff.

  • It sounds like that was not really the rape but the fulfillment of a fantasy and you would be willing so I don't know if you would really consider it a rape fantasy because a rape is a terrible thing one of the worst possible things a person can do to another person.
    Is something you would not enjoy

  • No, that’s one of women’s most common sexual fantasie.

  • Nope, it's fairly normal

  • Yeah, but a lot of people have strange fantasies

  • Not at all

  • I think a woman can fantasize about it but don't do it in real life
    I think it's a horrible thing that can happen to anyone male or female
    I've heard of this guy was in this house who he rented to his roommate
    just him and this other guy well he placed trust in this guy and one
    night he woke up to knife to him and the roommate was this guy
    and it was either to take a knife to his back or let him rape him

  • I think that it is a common occurrence. Always entertained by women who have never experienced rape.

  • This is probably the single most common female sexual fantasy.

  • Consensual non-consent sex is a kink many have

  • It's animal instincts. Everyone has it at least once in awhile.

  • I'm thinking it is strange as hell. Any person who as been raped would never fantasize about it.

  • No, this is pretty common.

  • Dude. It is an internal instinct from the cave man days. They want you to do it but they are too shy to ask.

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