Do you think it unfair on girls as they need longer to recover after sex than guys?

I tried pain kink lately. I'm still recovering from it -.-" I suppose for guys few hours is enough.

I don't mean normal sex. When you do some of the extreme stuff, not sure how many girls try them. My body is still sore after like four days... lol

Here is messy me today -.-"
Do you think it unfair on girls as they need longer to recover after sex than guys?
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  • The girls who like that kind of rough sex or BDSM specifically ENJOY the fact that they still feel sore for a few days. I've had girlfriends who I've spanked or fucked hard or pulled their nipples who have told me the next day that they're sore at work the next day... which reminds them of what we did and makes them soaking wet and anxious for more, or has them squeezing their thighs trying to cum without being obvious about it. LOL.

    But that doesn't mean that all women like those things - most don't, and that's perfectly okay. You don't have to do anything sexually you don't want to do or that you don't enjoy - you don't owe anyone that. Do what YOU want and enjoy, and that's all you need to do.

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  • I can't really relate to this because I have never tried anything sexual involving pain. It is probably the only thing I haven't tried! I have always thought it took guys longer to recover than girls. Most guys are out of action for a little bit when they cum. Us girls can keep on going. For me, if I cum when a guy is fucking me and he keeps going, hard and fast, I begin to have multiples! There is nothing like that! Right now, there are 5 different boys who I am friends with benefits with. We have an agreement... If they want this pussy, it is always on my terms. Sometimes when I can get them together, I will take them all on at once. I am not bragging, but I can make them tap out. Lol. After each one has came about 3 times, they are ready for a break. I am usually a little sore... Especially if it goes much over an hour, but I recover from that quick after a long hot shower and a soak in a bathtub.

  • Pain kink?
    People are weirdos,

    I sumtimes need time to recover from buttsex. For example, I took a monster cock in my tight little butt a week and a half ago and I probably still need another week before even thinking about taking another peen in my pert posterior. Regular sized peen never caused any issues, even after a 45 min ass-ramming session. But 2 or 3 minutes with a big, fat, monster cock? OMG. So insane.

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  • It's what you do that leaves you feeling like that, not the fact you're female. Physically, i'll still feel sore from a flogging for over 24 hours, and a caning will leave me bruised for a week. Mentally, I'm usually sensitive for a few hours after some hard play, but after a particularly intense session I've been known to have a wibble up to 48 hours after. Google the term "sub drop" and look for tips on aftercare. Plenty of fluids, some sugar and a warm blanket after hard play is usually a good combo.

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  • Fairness is a concept that is foreign to this discussion. How our bodies react to various things is simply the result of our biological differences. Those have not been imposed on us as a punishment or judgment; it is simply the way things are. And if there were no differences between men and women, life would be very boring, indeed!

    Vert attractive pictures!

  • It takes about 1 day (24 hours) 🙂

  • Can you tell me about it and teach me I know nothing about it and now I want to learn

  • With normal sex it's girls who can recover faster, going for kink stuff is your fault. :)

  • How could it be unfair if you are willingly engaging in pain sex? A person who does that is choosing the pain.

    • 😂😂😂😂 good point I guess

  • It can be, but it is what it is. Depending on what was done, I can be ok in a couple hours to a week. Longest was about a month

    • Agape93, Can you explain what the pain kink is?

    • It’s to my knowledge, sadism and masochism. Basically one enjoys either feeling pain, or enjoys inflicting it.

    • thanks

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  • We have to make more ammo, not just a little juice. Takes time.

  • I love the pain kink. Yes it can definitely last a while 😊

    • What does that mean? I dont think that most of us know what the pain kink refers to

  • I don't know much about as I have never had any experience but I would like to know from you mam.😅😅I am sorry I couldn't be much of help

  • You have a shorter recovery period for regular sex, can orgasm multiple times and have orgasms that last significantly longer so I think that more than makes up for your complaint.

  • um alright lol

  • No not if they have a lover who knows how a woman responds and is knows what to do.

  • For me that would be a bigger turn on. Pushing the women and her body to do even more so soon after to make her hurt more. Put her in more pain. Make her feel even more powerless and more like an object. Make just functioning so mucv harder for her


  • Well if your pushing inorganic objects into your anal and vaginal spaces, its bound to cause some prolonged pain,

    Similarly if a dick is humiliated with uncanny practices it will pain like hell for days, fyi even a small hit on the balls tosses a males life almost on the edge of his body.

    Imagine being in prolonged pain there,
    So I don't think that there are any biases there, its just about who is getting beating.
    In this case I see that's you.



    That's an average look for me though,

  • Where is the sore? Although you do look good.

  • You're looking spectacular 😂💜

  • Doesn't matter whether it's fair or unfair; it is what it is and it can't change. Blame God or whatever. But since apparently you're talking about kink stuff and not normal pussy sex, then I guess I don't really know what you mean.

  • yeah!

  • You look okay. Soreness is just your body telling you to do the same thing more often.

  • That’s weird maybe see a doctor 4 days women can have sex more than guys I try to keep up 10 times ina day is my limit you just gotta switch holes and positions ;)

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