Do you think it would be weird if I casually mentioned my vibrator while talking with my best guy friend?

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ArrowheadSW · Accepted Answer

It depends on the nature of your friendship. Coincidence I just experienced something similar today. A lady who is a friend (non-romantic) texted me about something today. I twisted around what she said and made a vibrator reference. She said that she "has some"... So I said that is awesome. She then said that that I hope I blushed but I said I thought it was cool. Then she changed the subject... LOL

theCobbler · Accepted Answer

Depends on the " why " you want to mention it?
1) looking for a reaction?
2) wanting help with it?
3) it's broken and need help trying to fix it?
4) Trying to get him interested in you for more than friendship?
5) or just teasing; trying to get a rise out of him?

ushagomez · Accepted Answer

It depends on the level of your friendship and normal conversation. I don’t think it would be weird.

anupamagrawal · Answer

Are you ashamed that you use a vibrator and masturbate. If not, then there is nothing weird in talking to your best friend - be it a guy or a girl.

And beside that's what true friendship is - sharing our secrets with each other.

Red_Arrow · Answer

If you are not doing it to get him interested, then why do it?

Dargil · Answer

Out of the blue, yes. In some masturbation context, maybe not.

lonron · Answer

Hell no, especially if you got one of those light up spinning spring loaded vibratron ones. I'd honestly be interested in it out of curiosity. All I have is my hand so it's cool to learn about all the options you girls have 😂

Haelaeix123 · Answer

Depends how close you are lol, i have friends who tell me when their periods are so some things dont make as much an impact as you might think XD

chriscdi · Answer

i dont know but friends usually talk about all kinds of stuff, i think that if the conversation isn't intentionally meant to seduce him then nah i dont think so

oncpl · Answer

Such things can be shared with best friends.

dudeinohio · Answer

Yes weird, but do it anyway

skittles2017 · Answer

Not weird. But he'll take that as a hint or something like you'd be interested in him. And he'll have loads of mixing thoughts about this. He's gonna be in a pickle. and he's very likely to do something dumb and you'll hate it.