Do you think its normal and right to feel this way? ?

I had discussions with some people on here who told me I shouldn't feel this way.

I was talking about a older woman using an underaged boy for sex, and I felt like she was using him for her own pleasure and called her a filthy pervert even though the boy would enjoy it and that's why I would call police on her.

Do you think its right or normal how I feel or not?
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  • I personally don't think you are wrong if the boy is under consenting age.

    Now, do I feel that it's normal for you to think that it's wrong for people to be together after a certain age gap just for sex.
    Yes, I think that's the thought process of a healthy person. With reasonable boundaries as far as sex goes.
    I don't even fancy folks that sleep around either. But I can't do anything about it. Except choose to not be a part of it.

  • It’s fine if you believe that but the reality is probably more complicated

    Think about it. How many teenage boys are actually even good enough at sex to give a woman an orgasm? Not terribly useful in my opinion... but maybe that’s just me.

    • What are you trying to say?

    • How useful is a teenage boy to an adult woman? I can’t imagine the sex is terribly good.

    • Thrn why do these women want them? They are pedophiles or pervets who are into them due to their young age. Most girls can't please older men either, but the men still prey on them. It's the same logic.

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  • The police should be called. You are right to feel this way.

  • its wrong but not worth having her jailed as rapist. if a guy in there 30s or woman in 30s with a OLDER teen they deserve get beat up not go to jail for 20 years. its not the same as pedophilia

  • I think it's wrong for an adult woman to have sex with an underage boy

  • Normal, yeps

    • What about right?

    • oh yep, all good I see no issue here, get them punished

  • If the boy is under the legal age you have every right to feel the way you do and to contact the police.

  • You have every right to feel that way, because that’s not right of someone to do.

  • Societally absolutely, but Biologically it's a different story. Sex outside of Marriage is a sin and is Hell bound. There is a legal age for Marriage in every country. In the past it was much younger and was simply based off biological ability to reproduce, for females at least. Being age based would technically mean it equal, but for men in the past it was based more so his ability to support a family, so was generally later than women. However, in George Washington's day, people had careers as early as 14, and he was a land surveyor at that age. People were marrying around 12 -16 in the old days, but for sensible reasons. People weren't living as long and had much greater responsibility and maturity. It is unimaginable most Americans would be ready at this age now, some parts of the world still prep for earlier marriages, but that is seen as a societal ill. Now days people are told to stay children through 30+ and rarely take the responsibilities necessary to become mature. These days too many lack the maturity for marriage and should wholly abstain from sex until they are able to marry, if that happened you'd see a lot more responsible adults and youth.

  • Yea people shouldn't sleep with underaged people thats statutory rape

  • Yeah, she is perverted and you are right to be horrified at what she's doing. And calling the police on her is probably also appropriate, for the sake of the boy

  • Yeah Jessie it's right and normal how you feel.

  • Good job not having double standards.

  • Yes I do

  • If they'd call police on men who did the same with young girls, they should do the same with women who do with young boys. "Predator" and "victim" have nothing to do with age or gender.

  • Yes, I think you're right about this. You shouldn't feel bad about it. Women should absolutely NOT be having sex with boys. It is evil. For all the same reasons that a man shouldn't be having sex with girls. This is such a horrific double-standard for society, and I'm really sad to think about how many boys' minds and emotions are messed up for life because of stuff like this, just the same as my heart is broken for the girls. Pedophilia is one of the worst evils on earth, and shame on anyone who tries to normalize it or condone it. You're in league with the devil if you do that.

  • its normal to feel the way u do, everyone is entitled to there own opinions

    • Thanks

  • How you feel is normal for a woman because most women see everything through female perspective. For a female this is abuse and (she feels) the reason she is a F*cked up mess is because she messed around with an older male. Therefore it MUST be as devastating to a teen boy, "poor thing!" But it DOESN'T have the same effect on males.
    Truth be told almost every male would be envious of the guy unless she is a real woofer. Now when they are found out-as they will be because what teen guy could resist BRAGGING about it-SNL even did a comedy sketch on it. Society, even as it punishes it for the sake of consistency, recognizes this and slaps female offenders on the wrist while throwing the book at male offenders where the ages were identical but the genders reversed.
    The only ones outraged about this are females. The "victims" are delighted and other males envious. (Not that some "victims" won't sue because, hey-double win!) Political correctness won't lead many males to admit this (see the other entries here) but ALL males know I speak truth

    • Erm I am not traumatised as you think. I had lots of fun with older men and many girls did it too. You are completely missing the point here. I am saying Female pedophiles are sick and are using a child, even if he likes it, I literally said he likes, but she is still sick in the head.

    • You literally misunderstood my whole question, I am focusing on the adult here and why it is wrong. You might be speaking the truth about how men feel, but you are ignorant about why I feel like this and other people in general. You think you know more and are wiser than others. How sad.

    • You also don't know what it's like for a female, you are a man. They are not fucked up as you think and many enjoy it as much as boys do but that's not my point. So much ignorance jesus.

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  • We are all allowed to have our opinion...

    • The problem gets when some people get mat at you and won't let you have the opinion. Like the people I spoke to

  • Underaged kids should NOT be exposed to anything sexual whether they're or female and whether they love it or not, period.

    Anyone who says otherwise is mentally deranged.

    • No, but some say it's not a big deal and I shouldn't call police

    • Fuck those pedophiles, they can burn for all I care, you shouldn't listen to them either, call the police if you want to save the kid's life from a terrible future

    • I don't know I don't think it would impact them badly I just care about the pervert too

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