Do you think its ok to hurt your girlfriend during sex?

[Phontom]

Why and why not?

[MrOracle]

That's up to HER. Different girls have different opinions and desires, and they are all valid. These things need to be communicated between the couple, and consent is always important.

I generally date within the BDSM community, and being a Dom, I naturally attract sexual submissives, and that was true even before I got involved with the BDSM community. Nearly every girl I've ever been with has wanted some kind of pain during sex, whether it is having her hair pulled, her ass spanked, her nipples pulled, or whatever. Some girls loved certain things but didn't like one or two specific things. One girl wanted her face and tits slapped during sex, but didn't like her hair pulled, so you can never just assume - communication is necessary.

It's perfectly OK to not want any pain, and it's also OK to enjoy a little or a lot, and to like specific things and not others. You get to decide that for yourself and you then need to communicate that with your guy. He needs to respect your wishes and desires, and changes need to be negotiated in advance.

[TonightYouu]

I think it’s okay to hurt her a little I feel like a lot of guys are too gentle when having sex so they are able to just rail their girlfriend/spouse how they should

don’t hold back fellas she’s a big girl she can take it the right position, motivation and momentum will rock her world

I believe level of roughness is the difference between sex and fucking

[IAteTwoFullHams]

It's the right thing to do if she wants you to and it's wrong if she doesn't.

[ohsheeT]

It depends on what you mean by hurt there are good hurts there are bad hurts I've had girls cry before and I would say why didn't you tell me it hurt I would have stopped a long time ago and they have said no these are happy tears don't stop

[Honest-Matt]

It depends on the girl, some girls like it rough.

[Guffrus]

Everything is ok between consenting adults.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Never had sex, but ideally no, unless she asks for it and even then, I'd have to feel comfortable doing it and it can't have any lasting damage, so maybe just some light spankings or something that's not too painful.

[mrmonogamous]

Actually hurt her? Not with the intention of actually causing injury. But a little pain (pulling hair, spanking, a gentle bite) is extremely erotic.

[20yearsolder]

I don't unless it's something that she's really into. If she doesn't like pain then it's not pleasurable for both people

[Sixgunsound]

I don’t think sex should be hurtful.

[AviatorTom]

Hell no. Sex is pleasurable, hurting is not.

[exitseven]

I don't think we should hurt anyone. I went with a girl who told me she was abused as a kid. She was into spankings and stuff but I refused to participate. i think she loved me more because of it.