Guys, do you think its ok to watch porn in your relationship and do you?

[Anonymous]

[Stellargasm]

If a girl was adamantly against it because of feminist views or something and was willing to have sex a lot I could stop, I’ve quit it a few times because I was worried I was getting addicted. My last girlfriend had a Sexy Fireman Calendar and read smutty paperback books, that’s like porn for Women so I didn’t feel any guilt looking at porn when she wasn’t around.

[BeachMaster]

Neutral. If it's important to you not to be.. Just find somebody else who is like that and wouldn't care. There is no sense in trying to change someone who doesn't want to be. Find somebody who already is like that you'd have better chance of making the relationship work.

[Asker]

do you know guys who strongly believe against watching it in a relationship because they consider it a form of cheating?

[BeachMaster]

I don't know about that. I personally don't and haven't for years. Just because one I don't like hackers like that in my busy.. And I'm trying to be religious like that and just turn away from that kind of lustful sin type stuff. To the right person they should understand and respect how you feel.. if they didn't want them to do it. That is reasonable. Shows they have good intentions or whatever. If that is more important to them then a long term relationship? Well it's probably just not a good match. Same thing goes let's say with someone shy or something as example. They might find it important to have someone else the same and the relationship might go better then being with someone that's not and trying to change them. Or they might like extroverts who are willing to help them change and are ok with it and everything of course. And so on.. Just depends what's important to you..

[Madhatter920]

Sure. I believe in "look, don't touch." Would rather them look at porn than be out with people face to face.

[Asker]

honestly i would rather have them be out with people face to face as weird as that sounds, or at least there is no difference for me. if you feel like looking at other naked women then go ahead, break up with me and go be with other women lol.

[Madhatter920]

I see where you're coming from, but I think that's an unrealistic expectation. You'll miss out on some really great people over something that small. Love and lust aren't the same thing, and I consider it a failing of modern relationships not to be able to realize that. We aren't always going to be available or willing to have sex, but that isn't going to stop our partner from having sexual urges. Just unreasonable to me to expect them to pretend not to be human and act like they don't have those desires. I wouldn't ask that of anyone I dated and I hope they wouldn't ask that of me.

[Asker]

for me love and lust are the same thing and in order for me to feel secure in a relationship i would need to find a man that feels the same way.

[TremorJay]

It's a gray area for me. I would much rather not watch porn and just have sex with my girlfriend, but I also don't want her to feel like it's her job to satisfy me. So I see it as a benefit if I can jerk off when she's not in the mood.

Unfortunately, no, I can't jerk off without porn.

[Miristheiss]

Neither of us do.
All my sexual energy goes to her alone.

[Reaperbot666]

depends on a few factors really.

does your spouse know you watch porn?
is your spouse ok with your watching it in general?
will your spouse watch it with you?
have you been sexual active with your spouse yet?
have you been sexual active with your spouse fairly regularly?
has your spouse been withholding sex and why?
but at the end of the day. porn is mostly for fantasy in many cases. so is your spouse unable or unwilling to try or test new things in your sex life?

[Danny_dan92]

There’s nothing wrong with it.

I think it would be really fucked up tho if say your laying right next to your s/o in bed and you masturbate while watching porn.

Cause that’s obviously not right

[Asker]

its all the same to me though, in front of me or not.

[Danny_dan92]

Huh... well you’re a rare one

[subzer123]

I do it but i dnt think my girlfriend really likes me doing it lol

[Browneye57]

IT's called being a 'porn widow'. This place is rife with them. Women who's men would rather jerk off to porn than be with her. It's an insidious sickness, like an addiction, and you can't compete with it. And a GIANT red flag.

Porn is ALL fake, and if you watch enough of that depravity you begin to believe it. Next he'll ask you for butt-sex, group sex, and where he should 'cum on you'. It's truly a sickness.

[DZMCXS]

Well, really your inner sexualization should be expressed. If your that far in a relationship, you should already know if u pulling it out or cum on her face. She might like that.

[Browneye57]

@DZMCXS - the truth is, if you're jerking off to porn instead of being with your beloved, you're a loser. Watching fake-sex porn is a giant fail. For a lot of reasons.

[skittles2017]

I think is OK and I do watch. My SO knows that I am watching and she doesn't have a problem with it as long as she doesn't catch me in the act 😅

[Twalli]

I don't prioritize it Uber my girlfriend whic is the only thing that's important.

[devil_8888]

Well girls watch porn in two cases. One when boyfriend is away and second when he’s not good in bed.

[devil_8888]

Nothing wrong in watch porn though

[Asker]

is this the same for men?

[devil_8888]

Yes...

[OpenNudist]

My significant other watch porn bloopers mainly but porn in general