Do you think its okay for people to sleep with multiple people at the same time, or is it wrong?

[ShadowwHeart]

[Bricealan]

A different way of answering your question: Had a "friend" (girl) that I spent time with her and her husband for dinner etc. She, the friend, knew that I was fucking one girl that I went to college with, and then later acquired a second girl from a 'blind date"

When she and I talked about it, the friend said: "I think you should fuck 'em both, I have girlfriend's that fuck other different guys a lot"

So right from the horses mouth, a girlfriend said it was alright for two partners. I was good with that. (But, she said don't let them know you are fucking others) I took that as a "qualified okay" to do it.

[lightbulb27]

no, there are human and historical reasons for this. I guarantee the girl gets pregnant, all those guys run. They aren't gonna support her without a visit to Jerry Springer and court, and many won't anyways. That's bad for the girl and offspring. Executing the offspring is not right.

Spread of diseases, emotional attachment issues, jealousy, lack of bonding, etc.. lots can go wrong. Might work for some, most not.

[Chevy1_kb]

I use to years ago as a teenager but i decided to stop because am not some slut that gives her self away to every guy and when I got a boyfriend at 19 i decided to change and become a better me and I have iam single now I have had 4 boyfriend's all my life iam 34 and a was there lover for about 2 to 3 years max only one i sleep with now is my ex no one else

[Little_Bumblebee]

In what context?

I don't think it's right to sleep with multiple people if the other isn't properly informed about it.

If I'm dating someone and he is sleeping around on the side, that's not okay in my book. I'm not interested in that kind of behavior.

[laurieluvsit]

Nothing wrong with it if everyone agrees or doesn't care

[katiesmuff]

Would totally depend on the situation

[MrNameless]

If its consensual between all the parties, I don't care.

[OlderAndWiser]

Aside from religious considerations, the questions are:

1. If you are having sex with more than one girl, have you informed each girl that you have another sexual partner?

2. Are you using condoms every time to avoid the spread of STD's?

[ushagomez]

It is a personal choice and there is nothing wrong with it if everyone is open about it.

[summiter]

If they are single, practice safe sex and it is consensual than why not? This has happened to me (fortunately) a lot when I was your age. Is this happening to you?

[Samantha36]

It's fine if you're being safe and honest with all involved

[slatyb]

It's okay if everyone is informed. It's not okay if they are lying about being exclusive.

[artgorgeous]

it's wrong in many instances.

- they are liars

- they can get everyone std

- it's bad for their mental health

[Dargil]

Moral judgements aside, I think it's bad for ya.

[Angel_ica]

Is ok I do often

[Nifrayu]

There is nothing inherently wrong with it. If all involved parties are aware and okay with it, then it's perfectly fine.

[cnj421]

Depends. Has their been conversations about it with all parties involved so everyone can do their part in being safe and smart?

[sheikalana]

To me is wrong.

[elizamichale1]

It is ok to me

[TheSpaceGnome]

Its wrong.

[Nikki1989]

It is called enjoying life. Nothing wrong with it.

[sundayflower]

If everyone is aware and okay with the fact I don’t see why not 🤷‍♀️

[BarryLiverstone]

Sure it’s ok if you let everyone know and don’t hide it.

[Alex-Snow]

As long as they are open relationships and there is no expectation of being exclusive than why not! Hopefully condoms are used each time! What do you think? Has this happened to you?