Do you think its unfair of a girlfriend to refuse sex unless she is sick or on her period?

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  • I believe that partners should generally be accommodating. I would not stay in a relationship with a woman who regularly refused.

    Sexual compatibility isn't automatic. A person who likes sex daily won't be happy with someone who thinks once a week is enough. When I was dating and met a new woman, I never begged for sex. I just waited and after a few dates they invited me home. If they weren't showing clear interest after a couple of dates then I just stopped seeing them as our interests were not aligned.

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you have to ask, the fix for the problem is to stop letting her take up that 'girlfriend' position. Probably some mistakes on your part, maybe just her, but however it happened, she got too comfortable and feels she's got that girlfriend position locked down, and doesn't need to put anything into it now. Swap her out for a fresh new thottie who's excited for the opportunity!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Anyone can refuse sex and it's their right to do so.

    Just like it's your right to leave a relationship due to lack of sex.

    No one is owed sex. Yes, compromising on sex is likely to make a relationship work out better, but neither party is actually obligated to do it if they don't want to.

  • Not unfair at all. For that matter, you are lucky to get what you do get. It's not like you put a ring on it and promised the rest of your life just to her, and followed through by marrying her. She's just a girlfriend, that's it. Nobody is committed, and nobody has made any promises.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Wow. You just essentially asked if the concept rape is ok as long as she's not feeling unwell. Go you...

  • No. You need to go back and get your meds.

  • No. The horny button isn't always on

  • Nobody ever owes you sex under any circumstances. Deal with it.

  • No. What kind of question is this.

  • If she's refusing sex a lot she's not a girlfriend she's a roommate or friend.

  • Is not unfair. You cannot expect someone to be always in the mood for sex.

  • No, if you're not in the mood, you're not in the mood, but if one has to pretty much beg for sex otherwise it won't happen ever, it's be pretty sad

  • Of course she has right of refusal, but if she's turning down sex regularly, then that's indicative of a deeper, bigger problem that needs to be tackled head on

  • Maybe doesn't want u to get sick? Or having a bloodbath? 🤷🏻‍♀️ If ur girlfriend says no, means no, DO NOT PUSH FOR IT. Respect her.

  • I don't expect my girlfriend to want as much sex as I do.

  • No she has right to say no whenever she wants to

  • no... its always a choice, for both men or women

  • It's not unfair, maybe she is not in the mood on that day.
    But if she refuses all the time, then it's time to move on with your life.
    If you are with a person that you never have sex with, than you're just normal friends.

  • yeah

  • Yea.. even when you ask something stupid like this.

  • Nope

  • No. We have a choice just like guys

  • Not at all. People are allowed to be their own person you know. Get rid of this silly entitled attitude. Maybe she’s feeling down and just wants to be left in peace. Should she expect you to perform and please her when you’re feeling like you don’t want to?

  • No, she has every right to say no even as your girlfriend

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