Do you think its unfair that girls I find attractive does not want to have sex with me?

[Anonymous]

[SteveSmith1985]

No, I can't say that's unfair...

I mean... I think what you're forgetting is that girls are people too. They get to decide who THEY want to have sex with. You get to decide who YOU want to have sex with. If there's overlap... then lucky you, you then get sex. That is fair. It does however mean that it IS in fact fair that the girls you're attracted to don't want to have sex with you.

It would be unfair for some girl to decide that you should automatically want to have sex with her, because she happens to find you attractive.

Maybe it's your use of the work "fair" that's thowing me off.

If you're asking:

"do you think it's sucks that the girls I'm attracted to, don't want to have sex with me

"... that is not nearly so... bad.

The answer to that question is:

"Yea dude. That does suck. But don't worry, every single guy has felt that way at some point".

But if you meant it the way you asked it... then you really need to take a step back and look at what you're saying here. Because this is an incredibly twisted view of what you are "fairly" entitled to expect from women.

[thebestalt]

No, it's not unfair. It's not about physical attraction either. It's personality. Everyone has flaws and we all need to seek improvement in ourselves in life. If all you want is just sex, then go find a prostitute. If you want actual companionship that comes with a sexual life, then you need to look at the type of women you are attracted to. Now, look at the list of things they would want in a man. If you don't hit those checkmarks, then you either need to find a way to do so or lower your standards. But I want to finish this off with this. Sex isn't gonna solve all your problems anyways so it's better for you to wait.

[Drumlin2001]

You think you should have a right to sleep with anyone you find attractive?

[abc--123]

It's almost like they have the right to not have sex with guys they don't like

[Anonymous]

I find Scarlet johnson attractive, do you think I'm gonna be able to have sex with her?
No, because sometimes your standards are much higher than what you actually deserve
if you want to get laid you have to choose someone your type and style not higher and not lower