Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So women get upset at people who judge them for having a particularly high body count right? Do you think it's weird for men to feel insecure when it comes to the opposite.
I actually remember one woman who flat out said she would never go out with a male virgin, because from her experience male virgins tend to be really insecure about dating a woman with a higher body count then he does, which leads to them being bitter, which then leads to them being toxic.
And the idea could basically be boiled down to he's either worried about being judged or he just feels inadequate for not getting laid as much as he could, cause you'll have plenty of people who will flat out say if a man didn't get his dick wet before he graduates high school, something is wrong with him and he needs to be socially ostracized.
Is a man silly for thinking this?
Girls, Do you think its weird that a man is insecure for being a virgin?
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What Girls Said
(3)People can have insecurities for all sorts of reasons. I've got zero problem with a guy that is a virgin. That's his business as to why. Lots of people want to wait for any number of reasons. I don't care what they are. That's their choice and decision. After all we all were virgins once. Doesn't matter whether someone loses it or keeps it for personal reasons. I'd tell the guy it isn't something to be insecure about. That isn't likely going to change anything though.
This dude reads like a troll now to be fair. Incels gotta incel and such.
@HelpfulWoman Lady if I was an incel, I wouldn't tell men to hire escorts or engage in sex tourism if they want physical intimacy. Seriously women like you are why more and more dudes are becoming passport bros. Who would wanna deal with someone so indifferent to a mans worries?
This is why I'm dating a girl... guys like him.
If it makes you feel better, I'd probably never date a white woman anyway.
nope asker. several incels do say that to be fair. but thanks for confirming :)
Thank God. Rules me out in the remote chances of ever getting anywhere near you.
@HelpfulWoman So ultimately this entire thing could basically be summed as "Shut up, nobody cares"
Well no actually. It's a "you need to see why you're feeling this way and potentially seek therapy because you're projecting issues onto a sex label"
@HelpfulWoman Oh that's an easy one. It's because it's a representation of my failure at a man. 33 years old, never dated, never kissed never fucked, barely making between 30-40k a year. Meanwhile everyone else in my generation got theirs and is ready to settle down. Sure it might not be the biggest part of it but it doesn't change the fact that frankly... im kind of pathetic.
@HelpfulWoman It's too late for me to get into any real relationship.
😂😂😂 yawn, typical incel bullshit whilst not actually dealing with the core problem.
@HelpfulWoman Ok then, Tell me oh wise sage, what's is this core problem you speak of? You have a lot of criticism but you haven't given me any answers. Either tell me what the problem is or leave. I have no more patience for your bullshit.
Yeah, I think it's weird for any person to put so much of their worth onto a label. The woman you mentioned didn't have a problem with virgins, but had a problem with the insecurities that manifested when a person puts the high value onto the label.
I'm not sure I agree with that. Forgive me if this sounds distasteful, but it seems like its only really easy to think its not a big deal, because you could probably walk up to any random dude, ask if they wanna fuck and there like a 75% chance he'll be down for it.
and there's her/my point being applied here.
And what I mean here, is again the label and worth of a person to you is now centred around their ability to get laid, and the insecurity that "the woman can go to anyone" etc. That's the red flag, not the fact they're a virgin.
You don't think it shameful? Or that you would never use that against said person if you got into a heated argument?
Whats shameful? being a fool who puts a person's worth on their ability to get laid? absolutely, its a douchebag behaviour to think of people like that.
... How many relationships have you been in?
3 proper. 4 if you count the one that lasted half a day when my cousin asked the dude out "for me" without my knowledge at a wedding when I was about 15
Then I don't think you're in any position to be so judgmental towards someone who hasn't even had ONE yet.
Yawn, I could see that coming. I don't think you're in a position to argue with me over how much value to apply to it then, surely, since I'm in comparison an expert? But I get it, you can't come off your insecure hill to die on. Bless you.
no it's perfectly normal