Do you think kinks are more of a "guy" thing? Do you think women are more about having kinky things done to them?

[Anonymous]

I've been with a fair share of women and feel their kinks involve having things done to them, while men are more about doing things to a woman. For example, I like legs on a girl, I like to feel them, I like when I'm on top and she wraps them around my waist or puts them over my shoulders. I also like a nice butt, I like to kiss it, gently bite it... but I've never been with a girl that showed a kink towards my body. However, I have noticed they showed interest in having "kinky" things done to them. This one girl would rub her feet on my shoulders and ask me to kiss them, another liked having her neck kissed and bit, and of course, there is anal. So, do you think men tend to have a kink as far as worshipping a woman's body and woman have a kink of being worshipped?

[Berethor]

You mean to say that women tend to be more passive? it's not a big surprise.

[Asker]

That's not what I'm saying. A girl putting her feet in your face and telling you to kiss them is hardly passive. Or a girl putting her ass in the air and telling you to fuck it, is not passive. It's more about a girls kinks being about the guy doing things to THEM, their bodies and not about them obsessing over a guys body.

[Berethor]

So you saying that men like women body than the other way around? it's also not a surprise.

[Asker]

I don't know, I don't speak for women but I do have an opinion.

[Armooou]

Definitly more a feminine thing, most Women react positive on the topic, if it is brought in respectfully. Kinks usually caused by trauma and we all have birth trauma behind us.

[Asker]

My question is more about the difference in behavior as far as kinks. I feel guys are more about worshipping a woman's body and a woman is more about being worshipped. Do you think there is truth to that?

[Armooou]

Oh yes I believe so, due to the divine feminine nature women are more often worshiped because they attract men with their sexual energy And can be better controlled, men are often too easy to guide their sexual energy But things have changed in recent years, many women are sub, others are more dom. Due to the recent hypersexualisation in the west the roles have often changed. But most women love to be worshipped. I hope this helps, even if it was not detailed

[Asker]

Yeah, I can see that when I read comments on here, women have become a little more confident and aggressive compared to my generation. That is a good thing!

[oldermale]

I'd say it's fairly even, my female friend gets right into my kinks

[Asker]

Does she show kinky behavior towards you, as in a specific body part of yours or maybe something she is into, like bondage? Or is it that she likes kinky things you do to her?

[oldermale]

It's the kinky look she gets in her eyes when I let her take control and let her tie me to her bed

[Asker]

Oh, so she is a kinkster! lol

[oldermale]

Most definitely ;) hehe.