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Do you think men will ever figure out to be a real "ladies man" (like James Bond) you have to have charm & charisma, not money?

You watch Bond he's never ever giving the women he sleeps with money, gifts, etc. He won't spare them a penny. Because he doesn't have to.

Bond - particularly actors like Sean Connery & Roger Moore and yeah even Pierce Brosnan - has charm. Bond has charisma. Bond is, particularly with Connery, embodies what people think of when they think of natural born leaders. People others want to listen to & follow.

What people envision when they call about ladies men, top dog, etc.

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And then you have people - particularly on this site - calling actors & celebrities and athletes who only get women because they have money "ladies men", "alpha men", etc.

They're not.

They get women as they pay for it... no different than average joe paying prostitutes for sex.

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  • James Bond embodies what "people think of" when they think of natural born leaders?
    Bwahahahaha. Which people would that be? Bond is an order taker in SERVICE of the Queen! He bedded as many women as possible in every movie until the Timothy Dalton movies. When they made him less promiscuous, the movie's producers got complaints from both men AND women! LOL

    You SERIOUSLY believe that if you were to ask 1,000 men and 1,000 women "who do you think is a natural born leader", James Bond is going to be the most named answer? LMAO. Get real. If the question is "in which movie franchise has the hero bedded the most women, and the most beautiful women", then the answer is James Bond -007.

    But, but, but what about promiscuity being bad and a sign of weakness in man? I believe I've seen that fall out of your trolling face before. I wonder where you come up with this shit sometimes. I know you think it's credible, but really, it's hilariously entertaining that you do. LMAO.

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  • To long to read. or as you do 'TLTR'

    Anyways, its possible... and I notice your last comment miss.

    I'll tell you a little bit about being a 'ladies man'

    Being a ladies men has nothing, absolutely nothing to do with having grand money, fame.

    Its like eqauting being rich and having fame to success in life.

    It is not necessary being rich nor having fame, rather, about what it brings.

    Success in life is not actually about being famous and rich.

    So it boils down to who is saying that.

    Chances are you want that, and you want a man that is a ladies man.

    Being a 'ladies man' is quite fun, but when you have a Purpose, you aren't going to have such an attachment to being a ladies man.

    Consider this:

    Men that are famous get dumped the same amount, if not more so than the average man.

    Why?

    Because after a woman knows them, the fame and 'sucess' 'wear off'

    Why?

    Because many eqaute their value to external things.

    So I give you credit, part of being a ladies man is being charming and charismatic, but who doesn't know that.

    So, if you are a guy reading this, or a female that wants to have multiple women, or a 'ladies man' whatever you define that, ask yourself why.

    And finally, ask yourself what do you truly want out of life.

    Because chances are, the only thing setting you back is your environment and excuses.

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  • It's very very easy to be in Ladies Man if you understand women and like you said if you're a leader and by the way I wouldn't pay for sex

  • Some men are some men aren't.

  • Only James Bond is never a leader. He is a field agent receiving orders from his department executive like every other agent.

  • I have met 'would-be' ladies men, who THOUGHT of themselves as 'lover boys'. As you wrote, it does take something more than money, of course, and many guys want to believe that money will buy them a warm woman. You and I both know that is BS. Besides their 'charm, and charisma' those Bond men were, good looking men who had all of those attributes, rolled into one. I think that being good looking is a good start, but most men, being the horses asses they are, think that will buy them everything, and once the woman finds that he is really a 'jerk-off' she is through with him. (sometimes) depending on how 'centered' the woman is. Sometimes a 'needy' woman will keep coming back to a asshole man, simply because she is attracted to him physically and that is a sad, if not PATHETIC, way to handle her love live.

    You have a great view of contemporary man. Stay with it.

  • If you ever read any of the Ian Fleming novels , even James Bond was not "James Bond" . It was really Sean Connery who brought him to life

  • While I think you are very right, I don't think you're going to change the world by telling the guys on here any of this. Lmao! But seriously good points

  • Pretty much true.

  • How sad that some women think that life should be based on some fantasy film franchise. As if real life works like that. they are just actors.

  • Except that he needs money for the nice clothes and cars even if he doesn’t give them any money he shows them a good time which costs money, if you have resources like him then most people would be very confident and charming

    • ROFL. Yet he doesn't show them the cars, etc. have you EVER watched Bond?

    • I’ve seen every single James Bond movie since the early 60s and he always takes them in his car in most of his movies, you do realize that it is fictional anyway, he is usually in some exotic places and of course the actor is always good looking

  • Men are enough smart that money makes James Bond!

  • James Bond is made up like all the Disney movies that make women think that’s how men are supposed to be. Besides I’m not trying to be a womanizer, one is enough. Women don’t even u sweat and each other but they want men to understand them? Lol

    • Women copy films and tv shows to much

  • I'm not interested in being a womanizer, I have more important things to waste my time on.

    • Yeah so do I but I saw an amusing post on GAG & decided to see the options.

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