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Do you think most people have some kind of gay experience growing up?

I think most people probably do but are embarrassed to say. Especially guys.

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  • Of course. It’s not like we choose it though. Societally we still frown on male homosexuality and bisexuality. In general, male sex is deemed dirty and damaging. The only thing that mitigates that is the blessing of a woman. Female sex is seen as beautiful and sensual. So when men are having sex with each other, it violates all of our puritanical preconceptions about sex and love. This is widely true of both sexes. Women might feel more free to confess having experienced gay sex, but how many will admit to watching gay porn? Very few, i’m certain. There’s a ton of it out there though. Is it really exclusively gay men watching it? I don’t think so. Admitting you enjoy gay porn is like saying you’re into snuff porn. Ell oh ell!

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  • When I was maybe (14?) I was in my boyfriend? basement recreation room playing ping pong. At some point, we were sitting on the floor, and for some reason, he took his penis out of his pants, and he had a hard-on, and said "Why don't you take yours out"? I took one look and took off up the stairs and went home, with him yelling up the stairs, "You don't have to leave"? We never discussed the incident, and I always wondered what would have happened if I had taken my penis out. (I don't know if I could have gotten a hard on under those circumstances) Scared the shit out of me if you want the truth.

    He was always chasing girls and got pissed when I got the girl when we were out looking for women, later on. He married, and had two daughters, and I always wanted to fuck his wife. I think he fucked one of my girlfriend as she seemed to know how well hung he was!!!

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  • I think it's v. common for girls I am not as sure for guys. In my case I cuddled + made out in bed with my friend when we were both single horny frustrated and 15, the guys we liked were ignoring us, it was not a big deal and we never thought we were in a relationship like that. Other times I have been flirted with or asked out by girls (including by a female boss at a job I had on campus in college) but have not had a relationship with a girl. I do find girls attractive but would rather be in a relationship with a guy and I'm in a ltr with a guy anyway.

  • I don't think so, most people already know what they're attracted to and those who question theirs are probably not straight. Personally, I've never had any experience with either gender.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I'm straight, and have never had the slightest interest in being sexual in any way with another man. Even as a child, I always found women beautiful and intriguing and as soon as I hit puberty, it was hard to think about anything else but women. At 52, nothing has changed in that respect - men do not even register on my attractiveness scale.

  • You ask questions and then don't interact with anyone who replies... why is that pray tell? ... not that I'm expecting an answer.

  • Most people do not have any such thing. Media again...

    • Nothing to do with media

  • Women more than men

  • I can honestly say that I never have. I'm positive because I can remember back as far as three years old.

    A few people I knew turned out gay. But, knowing the rest of my friends, especially my close friends, I doubt if many ever had gay experiences. I certainly never heard of any.

  • "I think most people probably do" Why do you think that? Are you overgeneralizing from your own personal experience?

  • F*ck no! Just because you're gay, doesn't mean you can try to put that on most people. I find male anatomy to be disgusting!

  • Nope, never did growing up. So I dont think most. Didn’t have an experience until an adult

  • I’d say it’s quite common yeah

  • No and fuck no.

  • Girls, yes. I’ve wondered about guys. I don’t know why so many of them think sticking their dick in their friends face is a funny prank and if it’s actually an underlying way to see if he can get any action

    • You may have something there! LOLOL

    • @desperatelyhungry I have had a couple of gay experiences I am bi but prefer girls. is that bad? how are you? nice to meet you 💖

  • Yes, if not necessarily an experience then definitely thoughts

  • I have been openly Bi since highschool so id say I have

    • You are absolutely gorgeous

  • Yes I have! I had a good guy friend when I was 13-17! We were talking about doing it! So he asked me if I did it I said he’ll yes I do! We were at his house in his room so he asked to watch for his mom. He pulls down his shorts he was already hard he was cut. So he starts jerking off it took him a couple of minutes to cum. He had a lot of cum! So he says your turn heck I was so hard I pulled down my shorts I had cum in 30 seconds I was so horny I had a lot of cum too! We would get together over the next few years 2-3 times a week & masturbate together! We would also give each other hand & BJS! I would sleep over at his house & we 69 & cum in each other’s mouths! Sometimes we would swallow! He was the only guy I was with! We were both horny teenagers experimenting with our body’s! Those were good times together!

  • I don't think so, but I haven't take a survey.

  • No lol

  • Partially

    In the meantime, I would appreciate it if you could comment on my question.

    Girls, An unfortunate man?

    #Reigner

  • I'd say SOME for sure, but I don't think it's MOST.

  • Psychoanalysis explains that it is normal for people to have gay experiences in adolescence, because they are preparing to interact with the opposite sex. The good thing is that before, they stopped being homosexual as they became adults, the bad thing is that now, they stay homosexual or bisexual until adulthood.

    • For my part, bisexual women disgust me.

  • I never been with a guy but I had gay guys hit on me and flirt with me , and make sexual comments , I actually just laugh and say sorry I am only into girls but thanks for the compliment , the only time I become rude to someone that is taking a shot at me is when they don’t take no for an answer then it turns creepy , but I never rude to someone that made the effort to approach me whether I am attracted to them or not , I can’t stand people that are rude right from the start , like we walk around with signs flashing over our heads saying what we are into or what are relationship status is , people need to wake the fuck up and realize their shit stinks as well , that’s what’s wrong with this world everyone just assumes the worst case scenario and only really thinks of themselves , I can’t stand people that are that way

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