Do you think one should have the first sex with an experienced (not virgin) partner or inexperienced like him/her?

I think there is no straightforward answer to this but as your first partner in sex would you prefer someone who has never had sex before or someone who is already experienced?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • both virgins.. cus otherwise you immediately have sex.. by extension with every other partner.. plus their parnters plust heir parnters etc ad infinitum that your experienced partner has had sex with.. this includes all the incurable STD's.. so.. if possible wait if you can till you find someone you might marry and spend the erst of your life with.. the safest thing possible is to have one sex partner.. everything else is a spin of the barrel. and these modern day std's some can kill you in horrible ways.

  • Depends on the people. Everyone is individual and will find thier own way.
    For me, I'm glad i had someone who had had partners previously, though I was a 35yr old virgin with 20 years worth of built up anxieties, not sure it would have been a good idea for her to be a virgin too.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I want him to do the first with me. So I want it to be special to me and live with me. So he must be inexperienced.

    • (~.~)

  • I honestly wouldn't mind, that doesn't matter to me. What matters is that he's the right person for me

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  • When i whas virgin i alwase want olso a virgin girl, but the fate have others plans for me and end whit a very experimantate girl

  • Mine was expereinced.

  • inexperienced

    • like I don't know about peoples' obsession with experience. Sex is supposed to be an intuitive thing. You don't need to be taught how to do it. The issues arise when people aren't emotionally connected at all and they attempt to physically connect I don't want the ghost of my partner's past partner to be there having sex with me, whatever they learned that he liked, I might not, and I don't want those experiences, I want new experiences with this person

  • Mine was with a virgin.

  • I thin it depends on the age.

  • Girls mostly would want that to be first with them only. A wise gentleman will know what a fresher girl would want😊

  • you answered your own question

  • Yes.. its better

  • I think losing your virginity to a virgin is the best. I think that losing your virginity is like a moment you will remember for the rest of your life. But I’ll also wait till I find the right girl to lose it with cuz ultimately if she is willing to lose it to me and I’m willing to lose it with her there will be a sense of trust with both of us. I will also know she doesn’t just fuck tons of guys for fun

  • I would like an experienced