Do you think sex has no meaning?

Question

especially one night stand. I mean.. it doesn't have any meaning and yet why so many people are chasing after it?

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Oh, it definitely has meaning. See her is the thing about a one-night stand, is that it that the fact that it has no greater meaning makes it even more meaningful, because you have this one-night together, and that one night is your one chance to make it meaningful.

True story, I was on a business trip. There was this woman at the same location on a similar business trip. We met and it was electric, like we were drawn together from across the room, from the first second we locked ourselves.

Long story short, we spent the night together, and it was amazing. Next morning, she wakes up and goes into the bathroom. She comes out full dressed and ready to leave. I am like hey, I don't even have your number or last name. She says I know let's not ruin it.

She leaves, and I never saw here again. But in so many ways she is the love of my life. I used to think we would bump into each other again some time... but that was just child's fantasy. But to this day I think still think back to that night and wonder if she was really right, or if we should have tried harder.

But I reject that one-night stands have no meaning.

Reality is that I have had one-night stands, and I never intended them to be one-night stands, I expected there would be many more nights and had hopes for more... but sometimes it's just what it is and nothing more.

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

I think sex has meaning it is the most intimate moment a man and woman can create but people are trying to make it meaningless at all cost but they fail. If it worked then sleeping with other people in relationships without the consent of your partner wouldn't be a big deal but instead it's still a reason for many people to end a relationship.

catarecute · Accepted Answer

sex is full of shit. people are being told they need to do it by media so that the condom company keep making money. sex is a money making even for the pharmaceutical companies with the contraceptive pill and pregnancy tests as well as all the std medication. and of course the porn industry. and we are the dumb idiots who are getting conned by it lol

artgorgeous · Answer

Excitement of getting a new experience. Its like a drug. But there must be some point in time when young padawan must stop. Its not a path of samurai. Settle down and find yourself a woman for life. Because samurai path leads to nowhere.

Wonderingguyy · Answer

That’s what I’m wondering. What is even the point in one night stands? Rubbing genitals with a random meaningless person is so unappealing to me 😅
Sex is great though when it’s with someone you care about of course.

Alexz0 · Answer

No it's just sex. Fun and physically required. But no meaning.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is just fun. It is not meant to have meaning.

Sparkie460 · Answer

A ons doesn't have a meaning that's why I don't have them

Jennz6 · Answer

It’s a lot of fun and that’s meaningful unless you’re trying to get pregnant

DerekC321 · Answer

It's complicated. A one night stand can be lame or very intense.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

The only meaning of sex is having kids. If you don't want kids it's not necessary to involve another person in your masturbation.

Still-alive · Answer

it can be a meaningful act between two people. but this can also apply to other activities shared between two people as well. so it depends on the couple engaged on it