Do you think she is wrong?

So I'm 24 and having sex with my friend who is 47 years old I think its ok but my friend says it's weird as I have known the guy since I was 14 and he was 37 he was friends with my dad. We have only recently started having sex. Is it weird?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It's up to you really but from the outside it does seem a little predatory to have sex with someone you knew as a child, or makes you wonder if he was looking at you in this sexual way while you were underage. Besides the age thing, it's not exactly socially acceptable to sleep with the child of a friend.

    • We said he fancied me ever since we first met for when I would of been a child so you are right

    • I wouldn't be comfortable with that as it seems like he could be a child predator. I dated a much older man once, as a young adult and there was a huge power disparity that he took advantage of. Sometimes men groom young girls, I hope that's not the case for you but I hope you'll be careful. I'd hate to see another woman have an experience like I've had.

  • Yes, because you were a couple years older than being a kid when you met him and he was old enough to be your father and still is. I mean if you didn't know him since you were a kid, it would be less weird.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It’s a pretty large age gap, but you’re both adults so who care. It’s your relationship. By your mid 20s I think most people are able to make reasonable decisions about their own life. It's your life, you have to live it the way you see it.

  • Nah. You're of age and so is he. I had sex with a 48 year old when I was like 19 20. There are some worse stuff too I've done but we won't go there lol. But yeah. I didn't know her prior though.

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  • If both enjoy it, it's fine.

  • It's really weird.

  • It’s a bit weird but if you like it, I love it.

  • Weird, maybe, but that does not make it wrong.

  • Very

  • its a little odd but not weird. just not as common

  • It's up to you, really. Doesn't matter if it's weird or not.

  • Don't care about what people says! Keep going if you are happy and enjoying it

  • How did you know the guy when you was 14

    • He was friends with my dad so I often saw him when he would come round to speak to my dad

    • Hows your dad feel about it

    • He doesn't know

  • Nah not really.

  • You're at the age of consent and the laws don't care about that so do it as you please.

  • Not weird.. seems legit to me

  • It’s all good as long as you are both having fun.

  • I think it is