Do you think submissive men are wimps?

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abc3643 · Accepted Answer

Don't listen to any of the other idiots here. They aren't old like me or married for a generation.

There's an old adage: "Pick and choose your battles wisely."

The dominant man does not do that.

The "submissive" man isn't necessarily submissive.
He picks and chooses his battles wisely.
He realizes that being dominant over her, in the long run, kills any love she has for him because he crushes her dreams and prevents her from being herself and giving her what she wants. Instead, by being easygoing and letting her have her way much of the time, he keeps her love for him, but he asserts himself if he thinks she is putting them in danger.

Medhat-M · Accepted Answer

No.. It's actually quite interesting.. I think the submissive one has a lot more strength and the one who's having more fun... Anyone can be dominant.. It's pretty easy, doesn't take much. . And submissive men have it a lot better than submissive women because they're actually in control.. They just let the girl play and push their limits... the ones i notice in real life are usually confident and decent people and some of them are in leading jobs like managers and stuff...

sophiejo · Accepted Answer

Nope, especially as even though they're the sub the sub has the control in the dynamic most of the time so if anything they're the opposite of a whimp

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not at all, might be boring if it was all the time, but who doesn't love to tease

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Usually within BDSM, submissive guys and girls are anything but, they have an inner strength.

Most are very strong characters who chose to let themselves be Dominated by someone they trust.

also it’s usually the sub that controls the overall dynamic

MCheetah · Answer

It's literally in the name: Submissive.  I think there's a difference in letting the girl lead in the bedroom, and overall just being "submissive."

Kaneki05 · Answer

In bed I am. Outside of it nope. And if you want me prove it give me a spider or snake or something that scares people who are as such.

Passion_Devil · Answer

I think they can be pretty cute

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Only if they let people walk all over them. There is also this called picking and choosing your battles. That's not wimpy.

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

No. They can be fun to play with

GlassTop · Answer

Yes. But it depends on what. You can’t call him a wimp if he submits sometimes.

Recurrence · Answer

I don’t

rabbitzzz · Answer

Weak.

EdwinLivingston · Answer

Girls are super hot when they occassionally take the lead

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes i do

May_Summers · Answer

Yeah

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes. Submmisiveness is for women not men. Men are only to be Submmisive to the lord Jesus Christ only.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Only if they choose to be. I like being a little bitch in the bedroom, but will turn things around instantly if it fits my mood.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Who cares dom or sub long as you enjoy

EnglishEuropean · Answer

I can't really say but I imagine it's like a kink for some guys, like a role not something they are in RL.

jimmy2 · Answer

Only in that act

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all.

Anonymous · Answer

only if you’re wimps outside of the bedroom & can’t stick up for themselves

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