Girls, do you think that I still have a chance with women?

[Batkoo0]

So, I wanted to tell you that I had one girlfriend before. We were engaged, but she left me. She found out that I have sexual fantasies and desires towards men and I like to wear girls clothes, so she left me. I wanted to ask, do you think I can find somewhere a woman, that would be okay with that. I mean I think I can still love a woman, I imagine my life with a woman, to build a family, have kids, be happy. So in terms of love and romance, I want woman. But is just that right now I am not sexually attracted to them. I want to be like them and I like mens dicks and I desire sex with a man. :( So what you think?

[1Sophisticatedme]

It sounds like you are bisexual, you like boy and girls. Try to find another bisexual partner, both would be in thesame area of interest 😀. You have plenty of chances and who knows, your partner will appear soon with you. Take it one day at a time.

[Batkoo0]

Thank you for your great answer! Lets hope you are right. :) I wish you all the best! :)

[Flower7]

If you're not sexually attracted to women, it seems like you might be gay. If you were sexually attracted to both, it would probably mean you were bi, but that seems to not be the case.

[Batkoo0]

Yeah, I mean you have a point, I am just really confused. Befor I was sexually attacted to women, but now I am not so sure..

[Elsa143]

You still have a chance with bisexual women.

[rxm_bxl]

Currently you don't have a chance with woman because you're bi-curious. So woman would not date you because of the whole stigma surrounding ""straight" men who fantasize about men". In fact, I too would not date you, but my reason would be because you're bi-curious. It has to come out of your system, you need that experience before you can move on further with women. This experience is important because it could reveal a lot about yourself.

If you enjoy it, then you're most probably a bisexual male, which also has a lot of stigma, especially when it comes to you wanting to date women, unless you date gender fluid women who are also quite hypocritical of bisexual men.

I can't ignore the fact that it seems that you have completely dismissed the possibility of you dating men in the future even if the outcome of your bi-curious exposé, is of a different nature. So all I can say is if it is really something that you don't want to accept and embrace, but rather supress it, then unfortunately you may end up in a marriage where you will remain unfulfilled and hence seek out men secretly, which is not a good path.
You'll also have to put up with appearances because your "straight wife" will not be too interested in a man that has been with other men and now wants to be with a woman. This is the sad truth surrounding the sexuality of men. At least most women will freak out and leave. So all I can say is, go on your sexual adventure and whatever the outcome, be true to that.

[Batkoo0]

Thank you for your great answer and advice. I think I need to do that, yes, because right now I am doing nothing. And everything is a mess and my life is a mess.. But did you check my other questions? Maybe you can help me more, if you read all of it...

[Just_someone23]

Yes you have a chance, don't listen to people are afraid of people that are different then them

[JosyJosy]

Yes.

[OceanMelon]

You might be bisexual but heteroromantic