Do you think that maybe my bf’s mom will think that I’m a slut?

She was giving me a hug and she kinda felt me up and I didn’t have a bra on I was wearing a big fluffy sweater instead. do you think that she’ll think that I’m a slut? I was in her son’s room the whole day lol
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  • Feeling you up is inappropriate, but not necessarily weird. She suspected you didn't have a bra on, and didn't want to ask, or seem to accuse, which would have been a much worse scene, so she give you a little feel.

    The question is, do you think she confirmed, what does she think of you, and how would you feel if it was negative?

    I suppose that matters if you care what she thinks, or if you want her thinking certain things. If she thinks you're a slut now, well that's what happens when you don't wear a bra.

    Do you care what she thinks? If not, don't worry about it. If you do care, because you don't want her thinking you are, or that you want to be considered, a quality candidate for her son, then I'd suggest you wear a bra around her.

    If the shoe were on a man's foot, and he thought you were a slut because you weren't wearing a bra, what would your reaction be? Maybe you should think about the impressions you're making/leaving people with. If you want that kind of reputation, by all means, continue to go braless. If not, then what are you going to do?

    • Why would that make me a slut? I was wearing a huge shapeless fluffy sweater that didn’t show my breasts at all

    • I wouldn't know, and neither do you, really. You're the one that brought up the word. If that's what you think she thinks about you, I already explained your choices to deal with it. You could always ask her why she felt the need to do whatever it is you think she did. Why don't you do that? Or are you don't want to risk making as big of a scene as she would have coming right out and asking if you were wearing a bra? None of us kow what she thought, why she did what she did, or why you think she'd think you were a slut. You thinking what you think only leads me to one conclusion. You know you were wrong and you feel guilty about it. So deal with it. We're not telepathic hunny. Ask her or forget it. Seriously.

    • I’ve only ever had one boyfriend and im very shy

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  • Not if you were in her son's room the whole day. Looks like she doesn't mind & is remembering what it use to be young & sexy.
    The question is did she do it by accident? Was she checking to judge you? Or did it feel like she was flirting with you? Would she find you attractive?
    Start talking to her like you want to get to know her. Ask her how it was like to date when she was your age. Let her know you are listening. Ask about her first lover. Compare dating today vs in her time. You will be surprised how much she would appreciate the friendship.

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  • Think about it... she doesn't have a problem with you spending the day in her son's room with him probably doing everything she is imagining you are doing.

    So why would she care about trivial things?

    Just asking :)

    ... and by the way, were you? ... lol

  • years ago maybe but not now, a lot of older women don't wear a Bra all the time out and being in a room doesn't say much

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  • Lol. Not wearing a bra doesn't make you a slut, but I found it weird that she felt up a girl who's her son's girlfriend.

    • So, don't worry. I don't think she thinks you're a slut.

  • I think it probably just caught her off guard, but I don't think it would be enough to change her opinion of you.

  • She felt you up like she's a lesbian? You were in heer son's room all day with the door open or closed?

    • Yes, this would help clarify some things...🙄

    • Lmao no she’s not she is a 65 year old straight women and the door’s always closed unless they open it or something

    • So it's more likely she's thinking slut because you were in his room all day with the door shut. Were you in there banging?

  • No she should not

    whats weird is her feeling you up and making a decision based on if you have or have not a bra on, that would be crazy and weird.

  • I think his mom is kind of weird for feeling you up.
    That's more concerning.

    • She’s a 65 year old lady I don’t know some old ladies could be like that I guess 😂

  • No, his mom is a supporter of free the nipple movement. :)

  • Nobody who knows you would think that. If they do, they have issues.

  • Don't worry about it. She will think whatever she's going to think. She's probably happy her son has met someone.

  • Jay you've been in a strong relationship with her son for a long time now. I can't see how she can think you're a slut. What I don't understand is why she would feel up your breasts. That must have been really awkward.

  • remeber, she was young once too.

  • She doesn’t care lol. At least she couldn’t feel if your nipples were hard.

  • I honestly doubt it. As a woman she would surely realise that sometimes it's just more comfortable and practical.

  • Doubtful. Even if she does, who cares?

  • I think Mom's should give you a break your a good girl.. Hahaha!!!

  • Unlikely

  • I doubt it.

  • are the 2 of you official? like she knows you're his girlfriend?

    • Yeah we’ve known each other for two years now

    • then she assumes you're fucking anyway xD that's not being a whore. that's normal.

  • Sounds like she's the one that's a slut. Not that I would ever use that word. But feeling-up her son's girlfriend is weird to say the least.

  • Not wearing bra doesn't make you a slut

  • She felt you up? lol.

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