Do you think that shouting at incels "you're not entitled to sex!" only makes matters worse?

[Anonymous]

[Lionman95]

Although it´s true it doesn´t help solving the problem incels have mainly with women. We live in a sexualized culture and generation, sex is pretty important to us. An Incel wants to have sex because he wants to be part of this generation and lifestyle. Look around online most dating coaches set their goals how to get into a woman´s pants. Porn distinguishes between dominant alpha guys who fuck around and beta boy cucs who are fucked around? An incels watchs this and gets the idea that sex makes a guy a man.
I´d therefore say it´s more helpful to talk with an incel about his motives and feelings, why he wants to have sex than telling him he´s not entitled to. Because many incels have a wrong understanding of it and just want to satisfy some quick lust with it.

[Bluemax]

The overwhelming majority of incels I know already know this. And I know a lot of incels in real life. A bit less than half of them are women.

[Agape93]

Nope. They don’t seem to understand that concept and need to be reminded of it.


If a homeless man doesn’t understand that he needs to have money in order to get a home, then he needs to be reminded. Same concept.


Enough with this nonsense, doorknob.

[0112358]

Are you suggesting yelling 'get a job' at homeless people is a good strategy?

[Agape93]

Nope. A more apt comparison is “you’re not entitled to a house without money”. Why? It’s basic logic. No money, no house. You’re not entitled to it, same with sex. Nobody is entitled to it. It’s not about helping them. It’s reminding them that they are not entitled to things that aren’t theirs.

[Asker]

Duh of course they know that they aren't entitled to anything. JFl at this gay world

[Agape93]

Except I routinely see them expressing the sentiments of “oh well I was a nice guy but she friend zoned me!” Or “she fucks other men but not me! I’m a nice guy so clearly she wants bad guys!” Or my favorite “sex is what bitches are for, and every man deserves some good quality pussy from the whores among us”.

[Asker]

JFl at them too. I hate them. Because of them our image is ruined and everyone preceives us negatively.

[Agape93]

Except that’s the mainstream sentiment among incels. Ones that DONT blame, hate or harm women, or support such things, are a small minority. That’s why incels as a whole need to be reminded.

[Asker]

Yeah you're right agape93. I left the incel communities because they're freaks. They clamour for a return to the middle ages yet none of them have the guts to live like that in the traditional patriarchy system.

[Agape93]

You keep saying you left it but then a week later you say you’re an incel again or you express their misogynistic sentiments. In short, I don’t believe a word you’re saying.

[purplepoppy]

Yes it does. You don't have the authority to say who is entitled to sex or not. What incels forget is a women's right to decline sex out trumps their entitlement to it.

[RolandCuthbert]

Nope.

Incels have to learn the truth. They are not "good" or "nice". They have to learn you don't earn sex by getting points for being "good".

The truth is, men are lied to. We lied to by women and by other men. But you can't use that as an excuse. You can't wrap yourself in some self-pitying cocoon that prevents you from moving to a better place emotionally.

We are men. We have it tougher. But that does not make the way impossible. And the only thing that God gave us to overcome these obstacles is our intelligence. The funny thing is, most incels have very high intellect. They just keep forgetting to use it.

To All the Men Who Think They Have Been Friendzoned, Passed Over, etc. Here is a Little Advice...

[0112358]

'Incels' have absorbed that message, to an overwhelming degree, they have concluded in most cases that they are genetically incapable of getting female attention, due to their jawline, charisma, etc.

[RolandCuthbert]

@0112358 It is worst than when women engage in body image issues leading to anorexia.

[jshm2]

No. It's funny watching them go up in blushing flames.

Same thing for femcels.

[Dchrls78104]

Although this is true and they need to understand it, being abusive, cruel, or rude to them about it will only make things worse.

[Twalli]

Pretty much

[Xoirwinkan]

You don't know the future. Anyone could have sex. Also, "entitled to sex" is so idiotic.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, but it's still fun to do. Lol

[Anonymous]

I don't see how it could. It's a factual statement that they don't seem to understand and their lack of understanding seems to result in unacceptable behavior.