Do you think there’s a thing such as too soon to have sex with your new boyfriend or girlfriend?

[Paulalove98]

[OlderAndWiser]

Whether it is too soon depends on what you want to get from the relationship. If you just want to have immediate sexual gratification, and you aren't interested in long term consequences, then why wait? Have sex now.

If you want a long term relationship with the right partner, having sex too soon has the tendency to make the relationship all about sex and not building a connection. Based on my experiences, relationships that start quickly and with fiery passion have a tendency to burn out very quickly.

When I was dating and looking for a LTR, I once waited for about four or five months before she and I had sex. Once we had sex, the sex was great and our relationship had a fairly good foundation.

[Fireguy17]

yes and no.
It will happen when it is time based on how both of you feel.
Sometimes it can take a month or so before you both feel the time is right, and other times you are undressing each other with your teeth before you make it in the house at the end of the first date.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Meh, that's subjective. All depends on the person. Some want to wait till marriage. Some will wait for the 3rd date. Some will go off of date #1 and see how the chemistry goes.

[Nikki1989]

Not really. When it feels right, it is right.

[Paulalove98]

My boyfriend already have even tho we haven’t been together long but the moment and energy felt right. It’s been 2 years for him and 6 months for me.

[Paulalove98]

Since the last time before doing it together

[ohsheeT]

I could say yes but it's the same time there are moments in time where everything is just right but there has to be respect on both parties

[SnowedIn]

No I don't. If you both know you're ready, and you're safe and responsible about it, go for it.

[luztfunblond]

I don’t think so. I like sex on the first date.

[Jerre]

Same with me

[slatyb]

No, I don't. Someone that would judge you for havong sex with them too early is not someone you want for a partner.

[Bricealan]

Agree with @Nikki1989 If both parties agree, to have sex, I suppose it is 'all good'

[Dargil]

I think there is. My guess is that going full menu on the first date ensures there will not be a second. It is best to wait for fondness to grow a little and to walk the bases for a while before the Grand Opening.

[exitseven]

It is when you both are ready. It could be a day or it could be a few years.

[stratford]

No - just enjoy yourself!

[Andres77]

Yes, because it could lead to not being appreciated by your partner or not being valued by your partner, because you gave it up too early

[RHK36]

Nah. Because if we already have titles then it's probably a serious relationship to me. So sex is good to go.

[runnerboy]

I think every couple is different. It also my depend on how old they are or if they are virgins. I'm a horny teen guy so I'm ready as soon as she would be. What have you noticed with your boyfriends.

[hbg84]

There's scientific research on this. It showed people who have sex with several diferent people basically have something screwy in their brains that doesn't allow them to pair bond with others.

Of course im using the most basic termanology. Basically there's recepters in their brain that dont work properly that doesn't allow them to form lasting relatiinships.

[DextroShade]

Only if you are a virgin. If you gave it up easy to other guys, it's disrespectful to your boyfriend to make him wait but not them.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, of course. You have to make guys respect you, or things will go south real quick.

[LiamJHayden]

If she is my girlfriend, no.

[BrookeS]

Nope, its what you feel comfortable with

[dudeinohio]

If you have already made it official, then you've gone too long.

[Twalli]

Yes, but it's probably later than most people think. It partly has to do with the fact that we aren't going to be having children so we can take our time.

[Nigjt]

Hell no I do not believe in that BS.
God Bless

[In_Trance]

Yeah, I think there is