Do you think this male friend is attracted to me?

Will give you some facts. I'm in a relationship with other guy and view this guy as a friend but things make me suspicious.
1. He texted me himself first 4 months before.
2. He wants meet-ups.
3. He texts me randomly several times a day (usually only memes). I feel like sometimes he finds excuses to text me.
4. He opens up about his past and his goals.
5. When i told him to hang out with friends, he was always Eger go join.
6. I find him passively criticising my relationship and boyfriend.
7. He compliments my mind.
8. He makes me meet his friends.
9. He tried to flirt but it was never successful because I declined it.
10. He teases me playfully alone and around friends (he makes sure to mention that we've been good friends).
11. He brags a lot and sometimes I feel like he tries to impress me. 12. I never share my intimate details with him, but about other stuff he listens me attentively. 13. The girl who likes him was jealous of me because she thought he liked me (when we met all three together). 14. Sometimes he hints on sexual stuff, for example he took BDSM test of preferences and asked me to do it too. 15. Our families are friends.

Also:
1. He never flirts in an obvious way and is never romantic/soft.
2. He mentions his fuck buddies but the ex ones and once he mentioned girls from tinder, asked me to help me to choose for him (lol)
3. He does not want relationships and thinks that love does not exist (he has been single for 5 years and only had friends with benefits meanwhile).
4. When he mentioned the physical or personal traits of a girl he likes, all the traits suited me. Short hair, slim and short nerds with big boobs lol5. He is usually non affectionate. 6. He dates around.
7. I try to avoid meeting up alone.
8. He never compliments my looks.

Should I be concerned about his true feelings? I love my boyfriend and he continues approaching. No problem with friendly stuffs daily, but if there is more, than i need to take a distance. I just need a reason.
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Superb Opinion

  • You've given this a lot of thought lol, so I think the question is how do you feel? I think you need to just have a talk with him (and you're friends, so this shouldn't be hard). Find out. You can directly ask, or if his behavior is bothering you, let him know this. You can be nice about it, but don't "joke" or anything, say it directly and with a firm tone of voice (but nice still) so he knows you're serious about it. Only he can say how he feels (we can guess as much as you can, but that's what it'll be, a guess). Some people act differently, and some are even just "weird" lol.

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  • If you're a short, slim nerd with big boobs, then I think it's safe to say that yes--he's very interested in you as will be the case with most guys! Just let him know how much you're into your boyfriend. You could even mention how incredible your boyfriend is in bed. No dude is going to want to hear you talk about that so he'll shut up real quick.

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  • He is pervert and just want another Fuck buddy

  • He is a pervert. 😏