Do you think this was the reason he is not interested in hanging out with me again?

He seemed really interested in me as a person the night before. He told me how attracted he was to me, we are both the same age in our young 30's working professionals, he is a lawyer and I am a psychologist which he was impressed by. We hooked up. When we were hooking up that night I told him he could cum inside me because I was on birth control (I know this was risky and stupid). When I asked him that night if he came in me; he merrily responded "Yup". However; in the morning I asked him again if he came in me, and he responded; "Yeah, did you lie about being on birth control?" I said; "No, I'm on birth control". When he said goodbye to me that morning it sounded like it was the final goodbye. I asked for his number and he took mine. After that he simply texted me to make sure I got home in the morning alright. Then after that seemed completely and utterly disinterested in me and ever hanging out again. Do you think he just wasn't attracted anymore, saw no reason to keep hanging out?, didn't like the sex enough, or was afraid i was planning on the low TRAPPING him with a baby and it caused him anxiety/like he needed to avoid me further? Which is the most likely reason?
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  • No, he lost interest in you because you slept together and he got what he wanted. It's possible that the birth control conversation didn't help, but I don't think his intentions went beyond sleeping with you anyway.

    • He told me in the morning that he is actual intention was for us to drink beer together and to makeout

    • And that he didn't have original intentions of us sleeping together that night.

    • Some guys will say anything.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You asking twice if he blew it in you was not a good idea. That's likely what put him off.

    • In what way though?

    • In what way? It was a dumb thing to ask once, much less twice.

    • So thats why he was turned off because i asked the night of and the morning after and he thought that was dumb which turned him off? hmmmmmm

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I would ask someone who is more experienced than I am. Maybe a psychologist would have sone insight?

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  • He probably assumed since you gave it up quickly, that you're just as careless with other men. He's thinking you're letting other guys hit it raw and cum inside you too. Which is not an attractive look. Those are the women we pump and dump, not date.