Do you think we've reached the point where hiring an escort makes more sense Fiscally then trying to rizz up a woman?

[Anonymous]

The implications are obvious for men, but for women I have a scenario I wanna present to you. And before you say anything I want you to remove all that emotional, sentimental bs from the equation. No nice fee-fees or anything like that ok?

You are a man, and you have 600 bucks you could spare. Now you could either go to a local escort that has good reviews and is reputable so you know you're gonna get your money's worth and by the end of the night you'll at least get a blow job.

Or you could go through the trouble of going on a date with someone spend all that money on an expensive dinners (Which is mostly her going after the expensive wine lets be real here) Just for the chance that she MIGHT have sex with you. Not even an assurance, just for the possibility that's she's willing to fuck you. And given how women will say time and time again that women have no obligation to have sex with a man, it would be safe to assume that once she's gotten her fill, you're never gonna hear from her again.

What makes more sense financially?

[OlderAndWiser]

If you view dating as a financial transaction in which you spend money and expect to receive sex in return, then your suggestion makes sense FOR YOU. And there certainly are some guys who will agree with your suggestion because they really don't want a relationship; they just want to get fucked.

After your hour with the whore, she leaves and you never see her again. You don't go to sleep with her that night and you don't wake up with her the next morning. Love and nurturing instincts don't lead her to prepare breakfast for you. She doesn't give you helpful reminders of things you might forget. She doesn't hold your hand to show affection. When you are sick, she's not taking care of you; she's somewhere else, fucking another guy to get money from him.

She's not going to give birth to children with you, so she will never assume the role of mother to your children. She won't be by your side at office parties. She won't attend family gatherings with you. When you get old and learn that you have a terminal illness, that whore won't even remember who you were, but a good wife will be by your side the whole time.

You might reply and say that these things are all myths and I am deluding myself. My reply is that these things may be myths in your life but that doesn't mean that other guys don't have these desires and it doesn't mean that nobody else ever finds a good partner.

So, you do what makes you feel good, and I won't criticize you for your choices. And I'll keep doing what I'm doing, and I'll trust that you won't feel the need to criticize me for my choices.

[Asker]

I don't and if you can find that then i'm happy for you. I just find trust to be an incredibly fickle thing.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes. Relationships require work. Many people don't realize that, and that explains why they fail. When something happens, instead of rising to the challenge, they decide it was a mistake and it must be time to split up.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Who the fuck spends $600 on eating out? 🤦🏻
What are you ordering? caviar dipped in 14k gold? 😂

Ok so I don't know what "rizz up" means, but it sounds like you are looking to go on a few dates to get casual sex, and trying to compare the cost of that with an escort for casual sex.

Here is my 2 cents on the matter:

1. Never have casual sex, try to get an actual relationship with a woman you love and have stuff in common with.

2. Order a pizza and stop buying overpriced dinners at fancy restaurants, they taste like shit anyway compared to cheap stuff.

There, now you've saved a ton of money, got better tasting food, and avoided syphaghonnaherpalaids, all while eventually getting infinite sex for free.

[LazerBean]

For men like you who are only wanting sex, then I guess. I wish liberals like you would just go ahead leave the country.

[Asker]

As if a useless tradwife wannabe like yourself has any right to judge me.

[LazerBean]

Stay triggered, hoe

[Asker]

yeah yeah talk to me when you start to cheat on your husband... assuming you haven't done so already.

[LazerBean]

That's an ironic projection from an admitting whore lover.

[ChefPapiChulo]

there's no way this an actual person spamming this everyday lol.

[Asker]

Yeah i can unironically say that whores are more deserving of respect then people like you. At least they are honest about what they want.

[LazerBean]

Well of course you think that, whores like you always have to rationalize their superiors down to their level.

[ChefPapiChulo]

There’s no way you’re a real person.

[rachel776]

i tell guys who haven't had sex by age 20 or 30 to do this

[Asker]

Wait unironically?

[AndreaScker]

Yeah I'd say so. I do believe women should at least give a blowjob to the guy if he paid for everything, even if she's not into him or doesn't want to go out with him again.

[AndreaScker]

Otherwise yeah hiring a prostitute is a way better deal

[QuietRunner]

good financial logic

[inhua]

"Game" and "Rizz" is fabricated societal bullshit dating advice that only gullible men try to use. being the most physically, financially and socially attractive man wields better results and your credentials will do all the work for you

[Asker]

Isn't that just a long winded way of saying all girls care about is looks and money?

[inhua]

personality can be faked and easily changed. looks and money can not be faked and take time to change. loving someone's personality sounds great on paper and in fairytales but there's no survival value to it otherwise girls would just fuck their male friends because girls tend to hang out with friends of a similar personality anyways. difference between a male friend and a boyfriend is attractiveness good genetics is attractive to create strong healthy kids. good finances is attractive to provide resources on the table. notice how a guys like Brad Pitt or LeBron James barely has to say anything and women already do most of the talking for them whereas Kevin Hart and Jonah Hill have to keep their mouths running constantly to achieve similar results even if possible attraction is biological. not political. you can't use words to talk yourself out of being attracted to certain attributes. it's futile for women to try to resist a super hot wealthy man especially if his competition is nowhere near as attractive. don't fall for the virtue signaling

[Asker]

Let me ask you a fair question. If the only way to land a woman is through good genetics and lots of money, why then wouldn't I spend that same money and retire to somewhere in southeast Asia or something where it's cheaper and it's women less entitled? See the problem with your stance is that it goes by the idea that women are a prize to be won. That if I have a lot of money or have good genetics then a woman would be granting me the illustrious honor of being with her. If I went through all the trouble of cleaning myself up and upping my finances, I'm sure as hell not gonna waste it on some mid ass bitch.

[inhua]

I agree. make yourself the prize so you are in a position to do the choosing lots of men are doing so and finding good wives overseas

[Asker]

Well I'm sorry if I don't see the woman as a friend it's never gonna last.

[normalice]

To a transactional person obviously a lifetime of escorts is the only way to go.

[stepyo99]

If your only goal is to get your dick wet, then yes, you would be better off spending your money on prostitutes. Dating is supposed to be with the goal of a long-term relationship in mind. Reducing that kind of commitment to just sexual satisfaction is a real easy way to fuck everything up for both of you.

[AviatorTom]

You are considering only the economics of sex, and in that regard, the escort is the better choice. But most guys want a challenge, and that's having a date, not knowing what you might end up with (on the date) or where the relationship might go.

Maybe, just maybe, the date might end up with sex many times... in a relationship. If that happens, was the one-time sex with the escort a better choice?

[RealMarek]

I suppose this comes down to what is important to you. If you want to find a woman who loves you and actually desires sex with you, then the time and expense of dating is very worthwhile. A date can even be fun, whether there is sex or not afterward. But if you just want casual sex, why pay for something that you could probably get for free if you socialize enough? Either way I can’t imagine why one would take the risk of a prostitute. Herpes is the gift that keeps on giving.

[exitseven]

I used to wonder about this myself. It is way better to be in a good relationship with someone than just pay for a hooker.

[Redstang88]

Yup, what I’ve spent on dates that went nowhere I’d be way better off just a hiring a pro

[Nikki1989]

You must hate money to want to throw it away so carelessly.

[Asker]

And how exactly would I be throwing it away?

[Redstang88]

Welcome to dating for guys 🤷‍♂️

[Throwawaynowknow]

I'm a lot of ways, yea

[adidas0169]

For most dating or being married is just a legalize form of prostitution if you really think about it. most women usually want something and guys do what ever they want to hopefully get sex which half of the time doesn't happen. it should be equal 50/50 you want something shopping jewerly dinner trips etc and in turn we should get what we want. i don't have the problem of prostiton as long it was done right like they do in Los Vegas out in the desert the girls and or guys get tested every wk for stds and if your positive for something then you lose your license until your neg. as long it's out of view of children and in a revenue like the bunny range make it legal and tax the hell out of it.

[Freedom_Enjoyer]

TL; DR - Do you think we've reached the point where hiring an escort makes more sense Fiscally then trying to rizz up a woman?

With that objective, it depends on your attractiveness for the most part.

Since you ask this question, it can be assumed that you aren't a Greek demigod. "Rizzing up" a woman doesn't guarantee box whereas paying a certain amount of dollars usually does. If this certain amount isn't disproportionally higher than the average cost of "rizzing up", then you have your answer.

[Anonymous]

It's always been cheaper, but I'd rather not spend my money on women at all.