Do you think what my friend is doing is ok?

[MadKez]

I have a 53 year old friend who is having sex with an 18 year old girl he met at a bar. He told me 2 weeks ago, and I was a bit surprised by the age gap, but I thought it was kind of hot.

What would you do if you had a friend like that?

[integrale77]

Both of legal age and consenting adults I see no problem.

[CubaPirate]

Get very jealous tbh

[PositiveFlight]

If it’s legal and 18 is in most places, and they both truly like each other, I’m happy for them. Chances are that he better knows what he is doing (over a younger guy who by the standards of many younger guys on this site can’t even figure out the right hole or anatomically correct way of having sex) and hopefully he is using his skills and that God given part of his to drive her over the edge of complete satisfaction and climax every time. Why can’t it be hot? Sounds hot to me. I only hope it’s a genuine relationship. If she were to get pregnant and she could with real vaginal sex that good and that often, hopefully he is a guy with the integrity who would be there for her as he should.

[Truth0225]

Nothing wrong with that. Two adults.

[Red_Arrow]

You are in the US so I assume your friend is also. Legal age to drink in the US in public (such as at a bar) is 21. Generally, minors cannot be in a bar since they cannot drink. Minors are allowed in places that serve food and liquor if they are with their family. She isn't likely to be hooking up when she is with her family.

[MadKez]

I am not in the USA

[Red_Arrow]

You mean you lied on your profile?

[MadKez]

It's wrong. I am in Czech Republic

[Red_Arrow]

It is wrong because you made it wrong. You can change it anytime.

[MadKez]

How?

[Red_Arrow]

Under your name select "Edit Profile". There are three boxes under "About Me". The one on the far right is a drop-down selector for country.

[MadKez]

Thanks

[MadKez]

So you think its OK or not?

[Reece12345]

The age gap... it's just too much. No good.

[Summeroflove]

It’s wrong because he is using her for sex and she’s letting him. They’re both gross in my boom

[MadKez]

It is gross

[Summeroflove]

Yes for sure

[CarlosWoods]

I don't see any problem both are adults

[Dargil]

If the are in accord, it is not my concern.

[mstbooblover]

Not likely to last many years such a relation between a man aged 53 and a girl aged 18, which is a legal age as far as I know. I'm sure they both give something precious to each other. The man has probably experience and patience, and the girl brings her freshness and lust for life. I wish them to enjoy many years, which may end the day the young girl meets a young guy she's falling in love with.

[MadKez]

I thought girls are vulnerable? Stop this crap and don't answer my questions please

[mstbooblover]

Sorry girl (?) or guy (?), I answered very politely to your annoying private messages, and I'm here only emitting democratically an opinion on a publicly posted question. Why ask questions if you don't want genuine answers? Well, you can still block me. Still best wishes, and in no case any offense meant.

[MadKez]

You just told me girls are vulnerable and men shouldn't have sex with them. Why now? Your answer is not genuine.

[mstbooblover]

By the way, 18 years is not 16 years as you mentioned in your private message. But sure I'm not competent to fix a legal age limit.

[MadKez]

16 is legal here, so legally there is no difference.

[KerriH]

This is true, in Czech Republic 15 is age of consent

[mstbooblover]

@KerriH Wow ! Interesting. 15 is nevertheless really very young. Maybe this legal age has been decided to match reality in the field. What bothers me about a 15 year old girl is that she's easy to manipulate. I have no idea how to handle that kind of problem, but I can imagine the anxiety parents go through.

[KerriH]

15 year old girls are well aware of what they are doing, they mature faster than boys and seek out sex because they are horny. They are no harder to manipulate than boys at the same age, no matter how you look at it. Your worries as a parent are valid, but really it's on the teen My sister had sex with a 33 year old man when she was 15. It was her choice.

[mstbooblover]

@KerriH Ok, I understand your point, but even if a particular 15 year old girl can be a little more aware of what she's doing than avarage girls, they're not really aware of consequences, and boys are generally idiots in that field at the same age. Legally it's always up to the parents who are responsible for their children's mistakes. This topic is very complex from different points of view. Actually I don't mind people's age as long as they really agree and enjoy, but still... So many things can go wrong.

[KerriH]

I worry more for boys. They don't get ad much support as girls do, and are just as easy to take advantage of. In fact, women pedophiles get far more leniency than male ones, and I think it's very wrong and toxic. I don't worry as much for girls, because they generally get punished if they get caught, it's the women I am focusing on.

[Drumlin2001]

They're both adults. As long as their honest with each other and no false promises are being made good. luck to them

[snackthatsmilesback]

He met her at 18 at the bar, okay. She can make her own decisions. I don't think there's anything wrong with big age gaps as long as both are adults when they first meet.

[snackthatsmilesback]

What was she doing at a bar tho, if she's only 18? Was this in some country with a more reasonable drinking age than the US?

[exitseven]

I would have him arrested

[MadKez]

She's 18 lol

[exitseven]

I would plant drugs on him

[MadKez]

How?

[exitseven]

I would figure something out. Anyone who is 53 and banging an 18 year old girl needs some serious adjustments. The kind you can only get in prison.

[exitseven]

Which makes me wonder what are you doing hanging out with a lowlife like that?

[MadKez]

You seem like a psycho Yet you would leave it if it was a woman.

[MadKez]

Seriously, you have no argument, get a grio

[MadKez]

*grip

[FunkyMonkee]

Applaud.

[aaron210419]

It's legal, but I wouldn't date an 18 year old.

[MadKez]

That's not what this question is asking

[Andres77]

She could be his grandpa. Gross both ways.

[Andres77]

*He... her...🤦

[MadKez]

Lol...

[Mansearching]

Congratulate him... lol. Seriously to each there own.

[Sparkie460]

I don't condone it but there's nothing anyone can do. 18 to 53 is too big of an age gap. He should be with someone closer to his age. I think it's disgusting the two of them together

[Jennz6]

It takes two

[Arik_jade]

See they had sex with mutual consent. So nothing wrong in it.
It's obsolete fine that he shared with you his experiences. Nothing wrong in it.

[Mark987]

I find that disgusting. I am sorry but someone who is 53 and someone 18 years old are lifetimes apart.. in life experience and sexually...

[AustColombiangirl]

Ask to join

[MadKez]

Lol no way