Do you think you can have irresistible sex appeal even if you are not very conventionally attractive?

And how to make sure men don’t only want sex from you, even if you are sexy?

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  • Yes, it’s definitely possible to have a powerful sexual allure without being conventionally physically attractive.



    Many other factors come into play—energy, psychology, societal factors, context, and more.


    Physical attraction is one side of a multi-sided concept.


    As for how to know a man isn’t just interested in sex.


    I’d say the key is to understand their philosophy about love and relationships.


    What are their values, morals, ethics?


    How do they not just view relationships, but how do they view life, and the world?


    And, most importantly, is everything they’re telling you true for is it just what they think you want to hear?


    You can see how they live their life and look for proof that they truly believe in the values, morals, and ethics that they say they believe in.


    And let their actions and interactions tell you what they truly believe—not just with you, but with other people in their life.

    • or is it*

Most Helpful Guy

  • The woman that men want to be in a serious relationship with generally don't flaunt their sex appeal - women who do can usually get plenty of attention, but it's going to be SEXUAL attention, not relationship attention.

    Just like it makes no sense to go to a Japanese restaurant and try to order Italian dishes, it makes no sense to advertise for casual sex when you are looking for a serious relationship. Women make that mistake all the time and they never seem to want to listen when men tell them that it won't work. Sure, they can get plenty of attention and even attract hot guys, but they rarely get more than a pump-and-dump out of it.

    • I have been told by very attractive former male friend of mine that even if I wear casually, I have this look in my eyes, that just makes you very attracted.

    • I think that is just my vibe

    • Even if I dress like a nun

Most Helpful Girl

  • Of course, there are 1000s of examples of it.

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  • "how to make sure men don't only want sex from you"...😂 Your naivete comes out and makes an appearance.

    • How is that naive?

  • "How to make sure men don’t only want sex from you, even if you are sexy?"

    Women ask this all the time. My answer is to have sex because you want to have sex. Don't have sex thinking you can trade it for love or commitment. If you have sex because you want to have sex, then you will get what you want.

  • You can definitely have sex appeal even if you aren't conventionally attractive. As for attracting genuine people; all you can do is be authentic yourself and place firm boundaries in your relationships.

  • It’s possible to a certain degree

  • Women who embrace their femininity can have this.

  • I hope so 😊

  • Sometimes there is just a vibe they give off. can't really explain it but being physically near the person can sometimes just really make me want her

  • Sure. Make yourself look creative that's all.

  • Being sexy is not only dictated by looking a certain way.. actions and attitude etc can make one sexy. Sexy is not just looks.


    Also what’s sexy to one person may not be to another, same with looks.

  • Ofcourse why not.. it's all about how u carry yourselves.. and for three second part. Well there is hardly anything u can do to know that one... who know some guy may not just want sex but later turns out to be a jerk.. some guy may want just sex at first but then slowly falls for u. It's a risk worth taking and nothing wrong if it falls apart.. it's not like u just had one sex in you and if u give that to someone it'll be lost lol

  • Yes I do