Do you think you’re more focused when you are having sex versus not?

[Justneedtokno]

Honestly I feel more focused without because I can’t do casual.

I just feel used at the end of it or me using someone else and I don’t feel comfortable with it

[MrHopper]

Yeah i tend to find it hard to just relax as am so focused on trying to do things and manage my own... err.. load that i want it all to last as long as possible, so i agree

[MrHopper]

Thanks for MHO

[NathanDavis]

for some reason I'm way better with math while having sex... than when I am not having it

[DizzyDesii]

When im having sex, i’ll say yes to almost l anything. So no im not focused when having sex lmao

[AviatorTom]

Tough comparison...

When I'm having sex I'm wondering what's for dinner, and
When I'm eating dinner, I'm wondering when we're gonna have sex.

Hmmm... not too focused either one.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I’m not sure

[elizamichale1]

I feel better focused when i have sex compared to when i dont

[TheSpaceGnome]

Never had casual sex.

Casual sex causes stds and unplanned kids.

[Grond21]

This is one of the many reasons why I think waiting for sex until you're married is very beneficial

[Justneedtokno]

There are many different things that a question about that. Yes waiting for marriage is great. But there’s so many questions so much hurt When choosing the wrong person

[Grond21]

Yeah, that's very true. But isn't that always the case? Waiting for sex doesn't change the fact that you still might choose the wrong person. But it does mean that if you choose the wrong person before hand and you figure it out then you haven't had sex with them. And that makes moving on much easier

[Justneedtokno]

I get that but after the fact I’m here in the marriage with the wrong person and you’ve waited all this time not that there’s anything wrong but waiting but you’ve now given yourself to the wrong person. It’s like people who say they love each other

[Grond21]

Yeah, but it also makes it significantly easier to judge who is the right person when you don't have sex clouding the mind

[Justneedtokno]

Yes exactly but that’s where the problem is you don’t know if people are telling lies

[Grond21]

But isn't that always true? And you just do your best to learn as much as you can about them, to see if they are being duplicitous or honest? It seems to me that not having sex before marriage in this case would be a great benefit because if someone would lying to you they wouldn't get to use you for sex, and if they were telling the truth they would be loyal to you even without sex. Plus you would get to make a judgment without the sex hormones clouding your mind

[Ask_Me_And_Sex]

Yes.

[DaveToo]

The ONLY thing I am focused on when having some form of sex with my partner, is to make sure she has had as many climaxes as she's capable of having.

[Wiredone]

Maybe that's why my mind is thinking about so much. It's the lack of sex.

[najekim]

I always focus on the task at hand.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

As long as the person knows what we are doing is a casual thing I don't feel bad and therefore don't lose focus on the rest.

[Bdsmaster]

For me it is when I am having sex luv.

[msc545]

not really.

[bananathunder]

more focused after... or at least from the release from masturbating

[eagle1951]

both