Do you use lube for sex/sexual activities?

Question

Just curious. I use flavored lube when I give my boyfriend bjs and we’ve recently looked at a brand that is supposed to give a tingling sensation during sex that we might try.

Also for those that do use lube, do you have any specific brands you buy?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm going to tell you this much about tingling, warming, cooling, bazinga lubes: They use a chemical irritant to produce that effect, and most of it just gets smeared around in your vagina, while orgasm occurs in the clitoris. So... eh. I hate 'em. But if you use one, be sparing, don't use it too often, if you irritate your lady bits too much you can invite infection. Beware of anal use - when your guts get irritated, uh... they do something quite awful.

Not every hole gets lubed up on it's own - there's no shame in that - use something safe and have more comfortable sex. Even the Vatican approves.

If you have any more questions about lube after reading this, let me know.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a48218-get-wet-the-ins-outs-of-good-sex-lube

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

Nope.
There's no need for lube when I give him head nor when we have sex. We've used the hot/cold condoms (so I guess similar effect to the lube you mentioned above) but the 'hot' lube coating the outside made it feel like I had a UTI and the 'cold' lube coating the inside made him take quite a bit longer to finish.

So... since there's no actual need for lube, we both prefer to just keep it lubricated 100% naturally.

MissMonstaz · Accepted Answer

Nah, never used lube cause I get really wet when I'm aroused and I'm able to stay wet for a pretty long time too if I'm enjoying it.

I also don't use lube for blowjobs cause I use my saliva lol and that is good enough to make him wet lol and I'd rather taste the penis itself with a mix of my saliva than have lube on it.

But I've only ever used lube when I tried anal sex.

Shaft50 · Accepted Answer

No, don't use any... I tried one once, it was a hot/cold one, but my partner thought she had urinated because of the cold sensation...'wait, I think I wet... no, it's all good... hang on, yeah, I peed... no, no, this fucking lube is fucked up and I keep thinking I'm pissing myself!'

Blake0048 · Accepted Answer

Wjat is the brand that gives a tingling sensation? Can it be used for bjs? Cause that sounds interesting and im very interested.

witherwing · Answer

I have a massage gel that is also a lube, but I only use it as a massage gel, since I don't have any use for lube.

southerngirl88 · Answer

We use it so we can keep going all night, and so it stays nice and wet down there lol

HotJealousy · Answer

I have to use lube for medical reasons, but if I didn't have to I probably still would cos the wetter the better haha, I've tried the tingling stuff and it's really fun

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

We don't use lube for anything

Goodwifie · Answer

I don't need it if my husband warms me up first.

jen_phils · Answer

Yes, after having kids it's a necessity. I don't even try it without it anymore.

markscott · Answer

Sometimes a woman is a little dry if the pre-intercourse session lasts too long.

andrea_sanchez · Answer

Only in anal sex

Deydey12345 · Answer

Girls need lube because their man don't make them wet 😂

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

I've never really had the need. The only time I can think of was for anal sex, and I only had one partner who was into that, and she only asked for it a couple of times.