Guys, Do you usually like a blowjob just as foreplay or all till the very good end?

[joaninhagirl]

I guess the question is easy to understand. Sometimes when me and my guy are doing some foreplay (kissing, he pleases me, I touch him...) I think about giving him a blowjob but... if he comes, then there is no sex, right? The sensation of receiving oral but don't come in order to have sex after is bad? When should I give him blowjobs untill the end? We are crazy about each other.. I mean.. the other day we had sex 4 times lol

[godfatherfan]

During the 25 years I was married we kinda had the same routine. it wasn't boring, it worked perfect for us. So I would play and suck on her tits for a while, then she would blow me for a while, then i would eat her out until she came anywhere from 1 to 4 times, then I would finish inside her.
during the time she would let me cum in her mouth, if I was going to do that then either we would go back to the blow job after I ate her out or it would be I would eat her out then she would blow me. either way, I am getting to do what I love most and eat her out.
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so you can do it and I would expect to do it during foreplay. just only do it a short amount of time.
But I am not someone that wants most of sex to be intercourse. I broke up with a woman in January that wanted sex to be 98% intercourse. I have no desire for that. I would rather it be 98% oral and I just finish inside her.

[TadCurious]

Well if you do give him a "finishing" blowjob, if you guys have time he can always get hard again after a little while. But blowjobs as part of foreplay without a finish are still great as well. You can always have both kinds in your repertoire.

[TadCurious]

thank you for MHO !

[AustinMan]

If his refractory period is short enough and he's been without long enough to be essentially Blue Balls, then maybe you give him head the first time, then keep it up and when he's ready again, jump him.

[dthdhdghadh]

Blowjob + cum is a good finishing move.
In my particular case a facial would be like an immediate recovery pill. To me there's nothing hotter than fucking your girlfriend while she has your cum on her face. Also it would make me all pumped up to make you cum loud and hard and repeatedly. I get kind of competitive like this.

[OlderAndWiser]

Before you get too far along, whisper into his ear, "Do you wanna cum in my mouth or my pussy?" Nothing could ever be sexier than a guy hearing that question from his lady.

[duckshark]

Either is fine : ), but, if it's foreplay I still love it being done to completion. Then I last even longer making love.

[JackKerouac77]

The best foreplay is discussing Plato's "Apology"

I mean... what IS knowledge? Gets me rock hard every time.

[oldanddecrepid]

Not at all... sometimes my gf and I just like to give each other oral to change things up!

She finds an oral orgasm to be the best... because I can play with her clitoris directly. They are really intense.

Sometimes I will take her to just about the end and then stick my penis in to finish her off that way too! It has the same effect. She then finishes me off doing oral.

[FierceBrosnan]

Both.

And good for you!

[MrExplorer]

Yes you can give blowjob first, then he can give you oral, then you can have sex after that. It will give him time to recharge.

[mchuck]

You could do it this way: give him a blowjob until he cums, then wait a little bit, then have sex. He'll last longer because he already got off once.

[Kagetora]

first blowjob until cum then just play a little while
continue with sex
always like that

[TotallyAlmost]

I almost never cum from a bj. Not enough stimulation at all. But they are fun in foreplay. I prefer foreplay to actual intercourse. More fun.

[jmmmfi]

All of those! The end would be good because you could cum in her mouth then

[abc--123]

Blow job till the end.

[LoverMike]

both, but mostly as foreplay

[SxoViHyperzZ]

yea let him cum in your mouth

[Anonymous]

I'll take a good blowjob over sex any day.

[Anonymous]

I'm fine with either but with BJ's you can't have sex if you orgasm. So I'll usually go with the BJ orgasm only once in a while, or when we can't make noise ;)

[Opinion Owner]

They are both very different but highly pleasurable feelings in my opinion

[Anonymous]

If he comes from a bj, and there is no sex, then he's a shitty lover.

He can always go down on you until he gets hard again, and then you can have sex.