Do You Want To Be Dominated In A Relationship? Why Or Why Not?

[Anonymous]

If You Identify With Dom, Sub, Or Switch... I Want You To Explain Your Answer...

Thoughts?

Because of this picture I am putting this in the sexuality category... Just in case...

[Massageman]

Sure. As long as we can take turns, as we learned in kindergarten.

[Asker]

Such a gentleman ahahahaha 😆

[KatherineJ]

In bed yes. In my marriage no.

[Asker]

Thanks for the feedback! Awesomeness

[finallylettinggo]

I am a switch, i need both to fully be happy and satisfied. Sometimes i want to be dominated, other times they are mine. They say variety is the spice of life and mixing things up this way makes life much more interesting. You get to see all sides of a person because honestly we all have a little kinky rebel in us somewhere.

[Asker]

I completely agree 1000% Thanks for explaining your answer to me

[finallylettinggo]

It's fun to be in control sometimes but others it's just nice to sit back and enjoy the ride. 🤣

[Asker]

So true!

[newfreshstart]

i identify as dom i find it very hot and erotic if i could dom my future girlfriend like if she got home from work and i was like give me a blow job now!!! And she didn't complain and just did what she was told that's so hot i wouldn't mind if she was a little dominant too

[Asker]

You are definitely a submissive... You pretend to be dominant... Thanks for the feedback though

[newfreshstart]

@Secret6620, just curious be honest i can take it why do you think I'm a submissive

[Asker]

You need to be told what to do and you don't think for yourself... You are constantly seeking approval... Those are sub traits...

[newfreshstart]

@Secre t6620 i do think for myself my gag questions are just to see what other people think on the matter wish we lived close i could show you i can be a dom in all parts of my life

[Asker]

I don't think that would make a difference... Be happy with who you are...

[newfreshstart]

@Secret6620 what can i do to change just curious

[Asker]

You can't change who you are... You are a submissive male which is perfectly fine! Don't worry so much...

[newfreshstart]

thanks @Secret6620, just curious are you a sub or dom & are sub girls into sub guys

[Asker]

I am a switch... And typically two subs together are not the ideal relationship... But that doesn't mean it cannot be successful... I think you should just be yourself... You don't have to identify with any of the above... This is BDSM related and not meant for everyone...

[newfreshstart]

@Secret6620 I'm into bdsm myself i find it vey erotic and hot

[Asker]

Yes you find it hot and interesting but you don't study it so you never know what you're talking about... You treat BDSM like it's a novelty activity not because you ACTUALLY like or enjoy it... There is a lot that happens with BDSM and a lot of things that need to be understood before you run around saying you want a sub or telling people you're dominant when you are clearly not... Just be yourself... You'll be MUCH happier that way 🙆🔆🌻 Enjoy your morning!!! Thanks for the feedback and hopefully this makes sense

[newfreshstart]

@Secret6620 thanks Google a good place to look up on bdsm

[Asker]

Go buy a book...

[newfreshstart]

Anyone you recommend

[Asker]

If you want to be Dom... Figure it out...

[Asker]

I don't have any recommendations... I don't read books about becoming dominant... Because I already am...

[Akshayjosh]

Not until she is a MILF who wants domination, but it shouldn't include whipping and other types of harassing treatment. That inflict pain that's unbearable.

It should instead make both of us horny

[Asker]

Thanks for explaining your answer!!! It was an interesting read and I enjoyed it... Thank you

[mikee2020]

no i feel its a relationship ,, nobody tells the other wht is or is not,, im grown, she grown and if she wanna jump up like she the boss ,,, well she can,,,, but she self employed if people are in a relayionship it should be as easu as running water ,

[Asker]

Thanks for explaining your answer! Super helpful! Good morning 🌞🔆🌻

[mikee2020]

and good morning to you😁

[Asker]

YAY 🙋 Thanks 🤗🌻🔆

[mikee2020]

😚no prob

[Sir_Glance_A_Lot]

Honestly it depends on the girl.

I would say I'm normally dom, but if I'm with the right girl, yeah I'd let her be dom if she wanted to.
I'd let her tie my hands to the bed post and do whatever pretty much lol.

We'd switch it up ya know.

[Asker]

This is an excellent post! I enjoyed reading your feedback! I like your open mindedness it's refreshing

[Sir_Glance_A_Lot]

Well I'm glad to hear that🤗

[Justneedtokno]

I would the guy to be dominant useless it in the bedroom then we can both be Submissive to each other

[Asker]

Thanks for the feedback! And for explaining your answer! I appreciate it

[Nalix]

I'm a switch, but I lean toward sub. I like to fight back though, so I like a the power exchange part of things, not so much the submission part that comes after. My sub side tends to be a bit of a storyteller and roleplay oriented, while my dom side is more growling and savage.

[Asker]

I enjoyed reading your post! Thanks for explaining your answer and for the detailed feedback

[RyanK9b]

I am dominant, but also like dominant girls. I don't like Pokémon girls.

[Asker]

Pokemon?

[RyanK9b]

A girl that just follows me around like a headless chicken. She got not her own mind and need always help for the easiest things

[Asker]

Oh I see

[oncpl]

I believe in understanding, switching from dom to sub so that both partners are mentally and physically free to express & explore their sexuality. It spices up pleasure in relationships.

[Asker]

Thanks for explaining your answer!

[oncpl]

Welcome.

[BloJo]

I enjoy both roles. Some days I want to be bossed. Some days I want to be the boss.

[AkkiAnj]

What do you like @Secret6620 ?

[Asker]

Don't worry about it... Thanks a bunch and good morning 🌞🔆🌻. Maybe try answering the question on the post! It's super easy if you can read 🤗💖

[AkkiAnj]

Yeah, I can see the fire in your eyes, wildness in your body and ferociousness in your comment

[Asker]

How so? Lol

[clampfan101]

I’m guessing I’d want to go back and forth, but I’m a very submissive person.

[clampfan101]

By the way, GaG’s not letting me PM you saying that I’m not Following you. I triple checked, and I still am.

[Quidthonian]

Dominant? Oh, yes. I guess it is in my nature to want to be in control. I'd want to be the boss. I'd want to drive things forward. But don't get too comfortable in the follower role: I reserve the right to throw a curve ball at you. I expect you to handle that curve ball correctly.
Even though I want to be the dominant party, there will be a time where you take the activity in a direction of your choice.
This is how my technically creative mind works.

[Asker]

I reallyyyyy enjoyed reading your post! Thank you for telling me more about yourself! I appreciate it

[19vetteman91]

I prefer to be the Dom but when I'm in a relationship I always try my best to cater to her fantasies as I hope she does with myine as well!

[Asker]

Thanks for explaining your answer and what you identify as

[swettannie]

i need to

[nousername26]

I'd be the dominant one... but sometimes she'll climb on top, or be the one pushing me onto my back on the bed. That sort of thing. A balanced relationship.

But come on... if the lady wants to be dominated, she'll get it from me... even out of the bedroom... but nobody wants to be bullied/nagged at.

Ah well.

[Asker]

Yessssss! I enjoyed reading your post! Thanks for sharing

[nousername26]

You're welcome take care

[jasco]

I wanna switch I wanna be dom one week and sub the next you knwo

[Asker]

Gotcha (◠‿◕)

[GreenGold1992]

Sure, but no toys, please.

[Asker]

Ahahahaha awesomeness 😎