Do you want to marry a virgin? Or do you want to marry someone you have sex with?

Can you fall in love with someone you haven't had sex with? Is premarital sex necessary?
With a virgin
Vote A
With the person I have sex with
Vote B
I will explain in the comment
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Either is fine. When I was 28 and this girl that was 27 I dated was a virgin, and she was dead set she was going to marry me someday it didn't have to wait.

    I liked her, but I think part of why her virginity was still in-tact still at that age, she wasn't interested in many people and also not that great at handling a relationship, it came with a bowl of problems too. So it's not all about sex, or virginity. Sometimes the stars can align though.

    • First of all, I was sorry for his death. How well you described it. You really liked him. This must be true love.

  • I rarely buy a car without a test drive.

    for me it would be important why she wanted to keep it.

    you run the risk of marrying someone who literally does not want sex and is using every excuse not to have it.

    now sex is not the end all of a relationship, but when entering marriage it’s important.

    Also, what if the marriage is in a registers office, does that still count.

    for me, it would have been weird marrying a virgin.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I won’t be marrying someone I haven’t had sex with.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I wouldn't marry someone I dodnt know I was sexualy compatible with

  • Either tbh, doesn't matter really

  • I would never marry a virgin, for me personally I don't see the point. If that's what you're into all the power to you.

  • I married a virgin.

  • I have zero interest in marrying a virgin. Sexual compatibility is important.

  • Only an idiot would commit themselves for life to someone without confirming sexual compatibility.

  • I will have sex with the person I will marry before I even consider proposing

  • I don’t mind a virgin, but she just better be ready to have a good time with me when it comes to sex.

  • Person I had sex with

  • I have no plans to marry.

  • If she was a virgin and i was her first, and then maried her, np, but at the end of the day i have no intentions of marry

  • I don't want to get married, but if I did, it would be with someone I had already had sex with.

  • I would never wait for marriage

  • I will never marry without having sex

  • I would never marry a woman and commit my life to her without getting to know her sexually first. Sexual compatibility is far too important to be left to chance. Try before you buy.

  • Is premarital sex necessary? It is not required by law! :) :) :) Some guys would absolutely refuse to move forward in a relationship with no sex here and now, and other guys would be willing to wait.

    Can you fall in love with someone you haven't had sex with? I have done that. We eventually had sex at about the 5-6 month mark in dating.